Wife is selling drugs and taking them, Help?

Question

She is a stripper and has bad friends, always has about 40 zanex and 4 extacy pills + others,really bad on drugs. I want to turn her in to embeder herself,I dont want to but i have to do it. How much time do you think she will get. i dont want her gone for along time cause i love her but she need it.How long of a sectence would she get if she got caught with that much?

Answer 1

she will probably not appreciate your kindness of turning her in...

Answer 2

I'm willing to bet she was doing drugs and stripping before she met you, so why complain about it now? :)

If you think it's gone to far, talk to her about it.  Turning her in to the police wll certainly be the end to your relationship.

How much time she gets depends on how many times she's already been arrested.  Anywhere from probaton to 25 years, in most cases.

Answer 3

Dee Vorce

Answer 4

She needs to hit rock bottom.  Your best bet would be to get her into rehab.  If you have her arrested she will never forgive you.  She is out of control.  You have to give her an ultimatum:  rehab or divorce.  You need to think of yourself and if you have any kids.  Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life, wondering if she's getting busted today, is she cheating on you for drugs, is she hookin'?

Answer 5

Maybe have an intervention with family and then call the police on the club where she works.

Answer 6

She probably is not a drug consumer but only a dealer.

I have to say it is not easy to deal with.If you have children with her and that child is in her custody, it is not good for your child... If you know somebody who is not involved with drugs and this person is her closest friend maybe you can try to get her out of this.

If you do not have a child with her please be smart and get out.

Drug dealers usually deals with extremely dangerous people and you have to think also about your safety and your life. If is possible get out before something really bad happen to you ! Hope and with you both do not have a child !! good luck !!

Answer 7

take her to a rehab center,........

Answer 8

lol! Embeder?

Answer 9

This is an impossible situation. Turn her in and move on with your life. Her type are a waste of your time and energy

Answer 10

Get her to a rehab and a psychiatrist!

If you really love her..you would do that first before everything. But tell her your doing it. Just like set it up to where she doesn't know she's going to one.

Answer 11

First, call or contact an N.A. (Narcotics Anonymous) chapter. You'll find they will have more resources than we do.

Second, there are ways of getting her rehab which don't involve incarceration. In fact, one would hope that incarceration is the last resort, and not the first one.

Third, let's assume it is the last resort, and you DID turn her in so she caught got to "get help."  If getting help is your goal, to force the situation, why would you let her get caught with "the full amount" if that's an issue?  Getting caught doesn't necessarily mean she has to have 44 pills in her possession.  If you think you have enough planning, organization, influence and control to report her and get her arrested, wouldn't you also have enough control to dispose of all but a portion?

Answer 12

If you turn her in she will probably never forgive you. Ask her parents. If her parents don't care ask someone who does care about her for help.