I raised my son as the primary caregiver while earning the bulk of the income for the first 8 mths of his life.He bonded to me more than to my wife,or at least equally.She felt that I was "keeping her" from her baby and took of with him.I field for divorce when I learned that she was trying to file in the state she took off to.
We had a temp hearing where we agreed for her to have temp full custody and I get a 20 day visitation period.We had the 20 day visit,he has been back to her now for 1 mth.I called today asking her if she had considered us just coming to some agreement and settling out of court,as to what type of visitation would she want me to have with the child or does she just want me completely out of his life.Shesaid the being completely out of his life was "up to me" and then started talking to me about my having anger issues,and I replied to her that her family making my son cry and me having a problem wih that is me having anger issues and she acted like she didn't know what I was talking about.Anyway I told her that I am not the only one with "anger issues here" and I guess we can just take it to a fkg judge and she hung up on me.
I can not figure out what is best for my son.Should I just totally sign over my rights to him,or wait to see the outcome of the Judges order?I have the abiliy to supeona 10 non related witnesses that wrote affidavits and she can only suponea her mother as that is the only one that filed an affidavit for her on the restraining order hearing.I beleive we will both be ordered psych evaluations,I stand a very strong case for full custody due to I initially raised him,she filed a totally exagerated and errouneous ex parte attempt that was dismissed and she wrote on the internet that she has hallucinations,suicidal thoughts,she fled with the baby 1000 miles from me claiming she was in fear for the child's safety and then agreed for me to have him for 20 days.What would you do in such a hostile situation where the baby doesnt even recognise me anymore?
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