Wife loves another.?

Question

Wife fell in love with another man, after 10 years of marriage. She's neither cheating, nor leaving me, nor admitting to it, and is respecting (mostly) my request to never contact him. Your opinion...

Answer 1

Very weird situation if you ask me.  She obviously fell in love with another man and that is called CHEATING on you.  You don't fall in love with someone else when your committed to another person, without having s*x with them and engaging in sexual relations outside your marriage is cheating.  Sorry to say it, but its true.  

Answer 2

Ha my wife did the same thing only she asked for a divorce we just sat down and had a long talk about what was wrong in our relationship yep we are still together

Answer 3

My opinion is that you should dump her sorry butt in the street, why would u degree yourself like that?

Answer 4

falling in love and acting on it  is 2 different things checking phone bills and internet history not a bad idea

Answer 5

I think if you really love her you would want her to be happy therefore you should let her go and find happiness where she feels is best.

Why would you want to be with someone who does not want to be with you; i think you deserve to be loved and be with someone who is going to make you happy and love you for you and only you.

good luck

Answer 6

Be prepared.

Women always win in divorce(almost always).

With that you'd be wise to invest in a few monitoring divices, just to be safe. Business' us those for computers and you can too. Tape your phone(cell) calls with her and get her to tell you details. Carry a small recorder in your pocket.

I know I sound horrible because nobody wants to believe that the one person they're suppose to intrust everything to would harm them. However this is 2008.

I lived in the fantacy world. Yesterday I had a business and a future. Today I'm pennyless and jobless.

Even if things work out, keep anything you may have secret. There may be another rainy day.

Answer 7

How could she love another man without cheating on you?  Evidently she has cheated on you in some way....by having an emotional affair with another man for starters.....What is she not admitting to? Loving this other guy?  If she hasn't admitted to it...how do you know she loves him?

Answer 8

.."tempted by the fruit of a nother"" it's whaz goin on...whaz goin on

p.s. no problem she would forgive you too..