Wife says God doesn't approve of Oral, is she right?

Question

Married Ladies, Single Ladies, Divorced Ladies, Dating Ladies, and College Ladies, I need all your answers and all your comments, cause enough is enough..I think she's full of it

Answer 1

Tell your wife to leave God out of your s*x life and to always include Him in keeping her family together, happy, and safe.  

Answer 2

LOL, Sucks to be you!!!

(no pun intended)

Answer 3

I'm single, and a Christian. I go to Bible school, I study it hardcore. And God is not against Oral if you're married. God gave s*x for marriage, and that includes oral. Because when people are having oral s*x outside of marriage it is just as bad as regular s*x outside of marriage. It doesn't say anywhere in scripture oral s*x is wrong. It might be her personal opinion, but Biblically there is nothing to base that on. If you're married God wants you to be having s*x, and that includes oral.

Answer 4

Sorry I am not a lady, but she is right!  I don't want to preach to you, but you just have to read the Bible or call a pastor to clarify it.  There was an old saying that I heard once, if you have to ask about other means of enjoyment, it isn't right or approved by God.

Answer 5

I think when it comes to being married...what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom and God has no reign in between the sheets with the married couple.

The promise is to be married when s*x takes place as written in the Bible. (Since you mentioned your wife believes in God)

Further instructions on what to do or not to do are not provided.  It's really her own conscience speaking.

Personally - I told my husband anything is game except anal-anything.

I'm a Christian woman myself.

(About "wasting seed" comment - there's a 20% change of pregnancy during a woman's reproductive cycle...if you want to get technical about "wasting seed".  Do you suggest having s*x only when it's "productive"?)

Answer 6

I don't recall oral s*x being discussed in the bible (however I am told by biblical scholars that in the story of Sampson and Delilah when the holy men bust in on Sam & Del and are shocked that he has "his head in her lap"  that is supposed to be a reference/euphemism for cunnilingus).

but most religions (not the bible) don't condone s*x that can't result in pregnancy (it's that "spilling the seed on the ground" complaint they have)

I think whatever spouses do in the privacy of their home is their business.  If you  and your wife can't come to a compromise on this then you have to decide if this is something you can live without or if she is something you can live without.

Answer 7

Yea she is full of it.

Answer 8

Ok, opinions are fine folks, but this guy wants to know what the Bible says.  Solomon 2:3 "Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my lover among the young men.  I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. "  NIV  You shouldn't force her to do anything she does not want to do, but she needs to lose the God excuse.  Good luck, you probably have your hands full.

Answer 9

Tell her to read Song of Solomon! That is a very s**y book about love between husband and wife.  I believe it even talks of fisting. (sorry if that is tmi) I don't believe anything is off limits as long as it is done with both partners ok.  God gave us s*x as a gift! Enjoy!  

Answer 10

I feel for you bro.

Answer 11

Well, God did say it was a sin to waste "seed"

So technically she is right.  Using condoms is also a sin, according to scripture.

Answer 12

My husband and I are Christians

Yes it says in the bible "better to fall into the belly of a w***e then to spreed your seeds on the ground"

I give my husband oral sometimes but He never "comes". We have the normal s*x where he comes.

Answer 13

Your wife is full of S**t

Answer 14

Oral Roberts? He is not 100% but I don't think I am qualified to pass judgment

Answer 15

I am married and I give my husband oral all the time. (And vice versa)

I can't find anywhere in the Bible it says not to....

Answer 16

Ok this is my wife speaking. Your wife needs serious help, maybe she needs a doctor. No bible I ever read said that oral s*x was bad. I have read the bible many times and oral s*x is not mentioned in it. s*x in general yes but not oral  s*x. And l can just bet that your wife just doesn't like giving you oral s*x or don't know how to do it correctly. Buy her some books on oral s*x and it might help you out in the long run. Also tell her that the bible states to obey your spouse and divorce is a sin and she's pushing you away and that is the leading cause of divorce. So tell her to stick that in her bible.

Answer 17

omg im not sure- thats a good question

Answer 18

the bible says what happens in a bedroom between married couples is private and not to be judged. how ever that could be something she was tought by her mom as most christian girl were so that when a man asks for oral (cause its not s*x-men will say) she will feel dirty enough to say no. she might just feel that way cause of what she was taught.

Answer 19

She's right and you're wrong. Stop making this demand of her and treat her like a lady instead of wanting her to be a w***e.

"Married Ladies, Single Ladies, Divorced Ladies, Dating Ladies, and College Ladies, I need all your answers..."

No, you don't. You need an answer from a MAN and I've just given it to you.

Never mind answers the clueless liberals on this board - those pimply guys in the band.

Answer 20

and you just found out?! Sorry for you cause it sounds like a cop-out to me!  

Answer 21

Some religions don't because they disapprove of any s*x besides the type between married people to make a baby.  However, an overwhelming amount of s*x isn't to make a baby, even if it is vanilla hetero intercourse.  Everyone should be willing to give oral, BOTH parties.

Answer 22

Ummmm I'am so sorry..you have been missing out....I sincerely hope it was'nt just one sided....

http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/s...

Answer 23

Did God approve of it BEFORE you were married? My wife said it just doesn't taste right after wedding cake.

Answer 24

Who cares?  You should tell her, "God doesn't believe in Divorce either, but that's exactly where our marriage is heading."  

Answer 25

I'd prefer to think he's busier with, you know, driving people toward peace and world harmony.

Yeah, she's full of it. Talk to your pastor, and if he's on her side, go to a new church.