Wife vs Car? Is it fair?

Question

I was thinking

Is it fair to pit your wife against a car.

For example

Your wife may want some new shoes but she already has 1000 pair

Your car is sitting on stock 15s and the shoes need to be upgraded to some 20 plus inches or even a turbo

Your wife wants a make over but she always have one done

You want to give the car a makeover by repainting it or even 2 toning it.

Your wive wants a divorce and you want to fix the marriage but she left. She dont want to maintain the relationship

Your car will treat you good no matter what if it is maintained

Is it fair to cater to a car over a wife from time to time?

10 points for best answer

Cardomain here I come lol

Answer 1

You sound like a total d*ck head.

your f*cking marriage comes before your car!!

Your marriage wouldn't have failed and your wife wouldn't be wanting so many makeovers if you paid attention to her instead of your tricked out oldsmobile!

What is this world coming to????

Answer 2

When was the last time your wife took you to the Basketball game in style??

Kept you dry in the rain on the way to work??

Didn't complain when you gave her the "cheap stuff"?

KEEP THE CAR ! It has soooo much less drama.

Answer 3

Actually my answer to this question would not be very typical as I am a woman who likes cars (former Army mechanic), hates shoe shopping and would have to be dragged kicked and screaming to get a makeover:P

I think in a relationship, the spouse should have priority but you should also be their priority so in turn, sometimes when there is extra money to do things, both parties should decide how it's spent. Maybe for one instance the wife could use it for what she wants, the next time the husband gets to pick. Keeping things fair and working things out together is the key.

Answer 4

i wouldn't trade my car for a Man ...Never  

Answer 5

Bring your wife into your car, drive in the country road, there's light at the end of the tunnel.

Answer 6

i got what you mean...

you spend your money w/ your wife & your car.. And your point is...

you neglect your car needs for your wife caprices..!

wife - can give you warm that you need when you feel the cold at  especially at night,..

       - can give you a dozen of lovable babies..

       - can bear w/ u until your last breath..

car - you can't stay longer inside your car, for you don't want to get  suffocate..

      - you can't share your dreams & goal to your car coz it's dumb & deaf..

      

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yeah right... car can't cheat/divorce COZ IT WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN HE GOT DAMAGE/BROKE.. W/O SAYING HEY, IM LEAVING YOU NOW COZ JUNK SHOP IS WAITING  FOR ME...

LOL

HA! HA! HA! ( just joking)

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kei fine! you win!!

let me tell you this,

not all women is like your ex who bring you tears & pain...

not all women can hurt you!!

not all women are cheaters!!!

you just need to trust again

Answer 7

I like cars...

Anyways, if it's going to break up a marriage, then both of you need to sit down and compromise...If she just wants to go shopping and you haven't had any new shoes on your car in awhile and she goes shopping all the time then it's time for you to treat yourself. Marriage is about sharing and compromising. If her love is shopping and yours is cars then that's something you both need to understand. It's give and take. Feel me?

Answer 8

hope your car gives good head

Answer 9

Hahaha! Yes there are woman into cars. but don't feel bad either comparing us woman we do the same thing with men. Specially the ones like me have been hurt.

Answer 10

the car is first i already told my fiance' she cant even drive my car and it will be in the pre-nup she can have everything in the house includin the house just dont touch my cars

Answer 11

Your wife is a person and a car doesn't have feelings, just to put things into perspective. You should love your wife more than your car. That being said, my fiance is a car guy, and I don't deny him his hobbies, but if I wasn't getting the things I need or our bills were suffering, or if he was spending ALL the extra money on his own hobbies and I wasn't having any extra spending cash, I'd be upset, but I don't see the harm as long as he controls himself.

Answer 12

I love cars!  

But...people are more important than things.  Therefore keeping each other happy (compromising) should be a priority somewhere; like "Hey [wife], why don't you go get your hair done and I'll get some new rims for the car".  What you want is important too.

Answer 13

Well you can't always make a wife happy cuz she'll always want more or either it wasn't good enuff.

I think It's ok to have a toy to play with and polish from time to time.

My husband has a few cars but each year he'll alway have a car to trick out.

This year is a old skool Buick Regal ...2 toned, 24's and sound system tented windows, ragged top ect.

It's so nice.  Every time we ride out every one is always looking and pointing, or taking pics with there camera phone.  It feels good so we both get sum thin out of it.

He take good care of his cars and I use to get jealous but I feel as tho he's entitled to do that.

Answer 14

Uh, have you ever tried making out with your car?

Answer 15

you need to work out a compromise so you both are happy, but your car should never come before your wife, her shoes yes, but her no.

Answer 16

I'd put your money into the car. Tell her its upkeep and maintenance. Things that will keep the value of the car up etc. Be careful though on how you balance it or she may wind up wanting the divorce and try to get the car in the settlement lol

Answer 17

A car is worth about roughly 1 and a half wives...

Therefore if you had two wives...

otherwise go with the car.

I don't even really know what i'm trying to say.

Wooo three way.