Wifes pregnant with another mans kid..?

Question

my wife and i split up in january and moved her boyfriend in the next day. she wanted to get back with me and i told her to get rid of him but she wanted time finally we tried and found out she was prego how do i handle that now?

Answer 1

You were technically separated...

She had technically moved on...

You both decided to try to work it out.

It is a hard decision.

You have several choices....

Continue to work things out with your wife..

When the baby arrives love it as your own..

knowing your wife still chose you all over again...

Or put the child up for adoption.. which will be hard too.

Have the biological father pay child support and have that thrown in your face every month as well.

I would suggest that you continue working things out with your wife and raise the child as your own.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

If you love her, you'll take her back. If no, then dump her. The baby's her and his responsibility, not yours.

Answer 3

its not the kids fault so whatever you do don't neglet the kid.I mean if u leave her then u don't have to keep in touch with this kid that is not yours.But if u are the father in his/her life don't deney them love they deseerve that as humans.Get a dna test.

Answer 4

why r u getting back 2gether?!?!?!?!

remember... this guy...the father

will ALWAYS be in ur life

Answer 5

well if you really love her that should not stop you from being with her

Answer 6

Wow. I'd say shes not worth your time! I'm sure there are plenty of other women out there for you. I'm surprised you considered getting back with her after all that.

Why would you get back with her especially if she's preggers with another dude's baby?? I would think that that would be more of a reason to NOT get back together with her. If I were in your shoes, I'd tell her to go back to her baby's daddy. After all, it sounds like she cheated on you. Would you want to take another risk at heart break if she did happen to do that again?

I hope all goes well

Answer 7

Maury Show if you are black/mexican, Jerry Springer if you are a red neck.

Just kidding. It was a joke

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Other wise, forget about her. She sounds like a conceded beotch.

Answer 8

You and your wife split up and her boyfriend moved in THE NEXT DAY? Now she's having his child? Yeah....yeah. This one pretty much answers itself

Answer 9

It depends on how much you still love your wife

Answer 10

Since he will be the father of the child, and u wanna get back with her, he will be in your life too.

Answer 11

get rid of her

Answer 12

Dump her ***, get out now.

Answer 13

If you really love your wife and want to work things out it shouldn't  matter that the baby is his. But if it is something that is going to make you resent your wife for the rest of your life then it may be best to split up.

Answer 14

You're going to be stuck for the child support whether you keep her or not.  The state is only concerned that the baby is supported and you are on the hook.  Shame she is so irresponsible. You should have filed for divorce immediately when she left.

Answer 15

Do you have kids with your wife?  If not...  You handle it by moving on.  You can do better.  Keep in mind she had a boyfriend before you left and got knocked up after you left.  If you are smart you will cut your losses and leave because if you don't you will have trust issues, not to mention that a*****e will be around for the rest of your lives as a constant reminder.  s***w her!