Will Doing This Make Him Angry?

Question

Me and a man friend were dating for a few months.

Recently, he has been offish and distant. He says it is because of stress of work and his promotion... this is fair enough and i have supported him.

This past week, however, he has responded to any text i send him in a negative way, and has said i am being "harsh" - he is reading far too much into texts! He has stopped calling me "babe", etc... and even though this seems trivial, it has hurt me. I feel he is being cold and critisising me no matter what i do to help him.

We dont even meet up anymore because he says he is stressed out and cant afford the time. I have given up asking to see him now.

Thing is, because this calling anf texting thing is causing arguments, i have left my mobile at my parents so i cannot be tempted to call him and so we therefore cannot get into any arguments.

I know he will probably be calling and/or texting and may be getting angry because i am not responding.

Will this make him angry? I dont want him to be angry, but i need a break from him making me feel awful and unwanted.

I know he will be calling and texting and i know he will be getting upset/angry about it but i dont know what else to do... and its making me feel guilty as h**l!

Answer 1

My god why are you bothered if it'll make HIM angry? Is this all not upsetting you then???!!!!  Just txt him then & say i'm leaving you too sort yorself out ok........

Your best of just leaving it how it is, no contact just let him get on with it, he know's where you are if he needs you, so in the meantime sort your head out & move on!! I couldn't put up with all that stressy c**p! lifes too short lovey!!

Answer 2

go with what lioju has said i agree with him  

Answer 3

Maybe he will call you, or maybe not. You don't know. If he is overwhelmed and stressed and you can't stay without calling or texting him the best thing you could do was to get away of your cell. You should stop calling him and wait until he comes back to normality if it is the real reason of his absence. With the time you'll know if he wants to be with you because he has called you back. Or if he was simply evading you. If he called you back and you don't answer... don't worry, he could get upset at the time but he will be waiting for your call. The best thing you can do is give him time and space. He will appreciate that more than you think.

Answer 4

Well honey feel guilty no more because if I'm reading this Right and I think I am, He has found another. His stress at work is juggling two affairs and he don't want to hurt you but his guilt is getting the best of him and that's where the arguments come from.  

Answer 5

My answer is exactly the same as Greenfingers except that I wouldn't bother texting him.  Leave your mobile with your mother for the forseeable future and have nothing more to do with this guy.  Sounds like you have been the one doing all the running.  Run the other way and find yourself a new man who will have time for you and not be distant.

Answer 6

text him and say we dont belong to each other no more thing arnt working workin out and hope we can be friends ( it think this is the easiest way )

or

just tell him you need your space and want to be on a break and explain

or sit down together and sort things out

Answer 7

if he has been distant and testy i would say you have a perfect right to take a break and give him some room.