Will God ever forgive me?

Question

I am convinced that my husband is a g*y. We have kids through artificial means. Now our kids are still in their teens and divorce is definitely out of the question. But should I move on to find love outside of marriage before menopause sets in? Will God ever forgive me?

Answer 1

God will forgive anything if you come to him with a broken heart and contrite spirit. Why is divorce out of the question though? If you don't want to divorce openly because of your kids then you can secretly and still live your own lives and raise your kids  

Answer 2

Why is divorce out of the question????

What does God need to forgive you for?  Marrying someone who misrepresented himself?  

I think a divorce would be more acceptable and easier on your teenage children than you staying married to their g*y father and having an affair or multiple affairs.

Answer 3

Why Bring GOD into the Picture???

Why did you marry a g*y in the first instance...????

Why dont you talk to your the other half on your Needs...??

Why dont you get a Female Lover instead...no harm done...???

Failing so .............do it discreetly, everyone has needs and desire

Answer 4

After the divorce, consider being a Catholic. Tell the priest everything, and he will have the diocese annul the marriage.

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Answer 5

Yes God will forgive you.  Why would you want to be married to someone who is g*y?  

Answer 6

If you're planning on commiting adultery, then you really should end the sham of a marriage.The children are very smart & they know when things aren't right between parents so you're only fooling yourself.

Staying for the kids sake is more for appearance sake than for them since they will know if you sneak around anyway. Yes God would forgive you, but why live your life in a way that makes you feel guilty? Do the honorable thing and end the marriage, let him go on and you move on to find someone who will appreciate you and give you the relationship this man isn't able or willing to.

P.S. Why is divorce out of the question but cheating is ok?

Answer 7

God will alwayslove you. He made you and loves you more then you could ever imagine.

Answer 8

If you find love out side of the marriage, and are still married that is a sin. Is your husband having an affair? A g*y affair, or a straight affair, is still an affair. That is his sin to deal with. If he has had an affair, in the eyes of God, you have grounds for a divorce. What ever the case, get some counseling. We have a loving and forgiving God. He knows we are imperfect, only one has ever walked the earth that was perfect, Jesus. Remember Jesus died for our sins, ALL OF THEM. There is nothing we can do to make up for pasts sins, just repent and change. Jesus has already done it all.

Good luck, God bless

Answer 9

the answer is YES he will forgive you..the real question is will god forgive him for living a lie....

and god will if he confesses!!

Answer 10

Not sure I understand, why is divorce out of the question?  You married him and want to stay with him, but want your cake and eat it too.  Maybe your husband wouldn't mind it.........ask him.

Answer 11

God is merciful. Every sin is equal wether it be killing someone or killing an ant there're all the same. He will ALWAYS forgive. You just have to ask.

Answer 12

  If you die before armageddon then yes but during no . The only sin he will not forgive is suicide and that also applies to before armageddon

Answer 13

You find cheating a more acceptable solution than divorce? There's something wrong with that...

Answer 14

do whatever makes you happy. god doesnt punesh ppl.

and if your husband is g*y than maybe he wants to be with someone else too??? why is divirce out the question?? is it bc of ur children? dont u think ur children would rather see mom and dad happy than at missery???  

Answer 15

yes he always forgives. just ask..and be sincere.

Answer 16

They is no law that states that you have to stay with your husband. Your guys are in there teens at a point in there life where they have some understanding. God forgive a person when you ask for it. This marriage is not working so you could leave. He is breaking a law in the bible. God will forgive you. And your health is much more important than being with a man that wants to be sleeping with other men.

Answer 17

I think god will forgive you.I mean if he's g*y in all.how long have you been married?

                       good luck!