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Will I go to h**l if my husband did wrong.no matter how good I behaved in this world??

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@aziz and SARA,then what is this verse talking about??

@Zaiinad,get lost..

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  1. Allah Judge Individuals ONLY .

    He will judge u alone and judge Ur husband alone.

    U wont be judged on his bad action.

    Islam is a Fair religion.


  2. It is speaking of the unbeleivers who commited shirk and were supported in it by their wives.

    As a contrast, compare that to the wife of the Pharoah who followed Musa (p).  While Pharoah was the most evil of his time, surely his wife was one of the best beleivers.

    So no, you will not bear the burden of your husbands' or anyone else's crime.

  3. Salam for you my dear Nimmy.Sorry you misunderstood the translation of surah 37 As Syafaat verse 22 and 23 In these verses Allah spoke that Allah instructed angels .Collect together all cruel persons with their friends (do not their wives) and those have been worshipped by them, another than Allah and then show them the road to h**l.(all fafirs) So a good  muslim wife will go to heaven and her bad husband who did wrong will go to h**l and be punished on the day of judgement after resurrection day.

  4. no.....

    if you and your husband worship to another God beside Allah , both of you will go to h**l

    if your husband do something bad which is already forbidden in islam , it's his own responsibility to God

    you do not have nothing to do with his mistake but you have to remind him about what he did is wrong.

  5. No their is a verse in the Quran. I cannot get my head around it now but it says something like "no man shall bare another's sin".

    Plus that verse is specifically referring to Abu Sufyan and his wife.

  6. First of all, I want to stress the Qur'anic law:

    017.015 مَنِ اهْتَدَى فَإِنَّمَا يَهْتَدِي لِنَفْسِهِ وَمَنْ ضَلَّ فَإِنَّمَا يَضِلُّ عَلَيْهَا وَلا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَى وَمَا كُنَّا مُعَذِّبِينَ حَتَّى نَبْعَثَ رَسُولا

    017.015 Who receiveth guidance, receiveth it for his own benefit: who goeth astray doth so to his own loss: No bearer of burdens can bear the burden of another: nor would We visit with Our Wrath until We had sent an messenger (to give warning).

    Al-Qur'an, 017.015 (Al-Isra [Isra, The Night Journey, Children of Israel])

    I also had the same question in my mind some time ago. I just checked the exegesis (commentaries) of Ibn Kathir, At-Tabari, Al-Qurtubi, Ar-Razi and some others quickly and saw that they all gave a similar explanation:

    The Arabic word "Azwajwhwm" doesn't necessarily mean "their wives". "Azwaj" is also used for "pairs" or "similar things". That is why all of them stress that the meaning of "Azwaj" hear means "their alike". The verse is talking about the disbelievers and God commands the angels to assemble the those disbelievers and "those like them", "their supporters", "their helpers", etc.

    Among those meanings it can also means "their wives" who were like them in disbelief.

    Even if we don't depend on the commentators, we should know that the Qur'an itself completes its meaning and that's why we should know what the whole Qur'an says about a specific subject before deciding on something.

    Allah knows best.

    Peace be unto you.

    P.S. Sorry the 10 minutes stretched to 30. :D

  7. NO, here is a unknown little fact, the wife of Pharoah during MOses time went to heaven, as soon as she died, she was in heaven bcuz she knew her husband was wrong and asked God for paradise.

  8. It is possible that your husband's sins are condoned for your sake but it is impossible that you may be h**l bound due to sins of your husband.Quran says that example of momins is either of wife of Pharoaha and of Hazrar Maryam (the holy Mary).Quite interestingly no man is qouted as an example of momin. Do not worry but try if you can save him from h**l.

  9. no no we are only held for our own sins

    wait i got the sura i got it for you :D



    :) hope this helps

    jazakh Allah khair

    the sura as-saffat means those lined up. the vers tsalk abpout the desbelievers about the day of judgement and how the desbelievers will find out on this day but the angels will quide those into h**l fire:

    22)The angels will be ordered] "gather those committed wrong, their wives, and what THEY used to worship....

    23) Other than Allah, and quide them to the pathg of hellfire

    So basically if the wife was involved too ... but if the women worshiped Allah (swt) then she she wont be punished

    you see what im trying to say?

    x :D

  10. It means that those man & wife(s) who commit sins will be punished.

    Not the good wife.

    Hey, you can't deny that Allah is the fair, right?

      

  11. Give me a break. at no time will another person be  condemned for the sins of another.

  12. Sura, my belief is that you cannot go to h**l for another's wrong doing.

    I personally am not religious, in the orthodox sense of the word, however, I believe that humans, all humans have a spirit, and that spirit will eventually return to god, whatever you conceive that god to be. My personal belief is, that there is no heaven or h**l, except that which we humans impose on others.     Suru - be at peace.   Your karma is yours, and your husbands is his.    Po marie

  13. no , every person is judged for his/hers sins alone that's how it is.

  14. The wife of Pheron was Muslim and Pheron was non-muslim.

    No matter if anyone does wrong it's not your sin. But you will be questioned for what you did in this life. You cant excuse that you were stopped from worshiping Him.

  15. No, you will not! If you follow your husband in worshipping wrongly, you of course will be punished. But Allah (SWT) gave you free will; the Qu'ran says that "no soul shall bear the burden of another".

    If your husband leaves Islam, it is your responsibility to try to bring him back and if he refuses, divorce him.

    The verse in your question is referring to husbands and wives who worshipped wrongly together: "together with their wives and what THEY used to worship", not "what HE used to worship".

    Peace be upon you, and I hope you find your answers.

  16. Ok, just my interpretation......

    As we know, a Muslim lady is not allowed to marry a non Muslim man, because most of the times the man has a big influence on the wife, also in religious matters. When the husband is not a strong believer, or a non believer, the wife might follow him, no matter how strong her faith used to be.

    So if the husband is astray, it might be very well possible the wife is too. She will have to pay for her own deeds though!

    If she has been a righteous believer she will not be punished. (as mentioned here by others too, think of Pharaoh's wife!)

    That's my interpretation. 'Those who did wrong' can be non believers and hypocrites i guess!

  17. "That no laden one shall bear another's load,and that man has only that for which he makes effort, and that his effort will be seen, and afterward he will be repaid for it with the fullest payment"

    -----Al-Quran-----

    The ayah u mentioned is about the non believers like Abu Lahab, who were supported by their wives in evil deeds.

    Aasia, the wife of Paroh was a Muslim, while her husband was the worst disbeliever. She has been mentioned in the Quran in the highest of honorable terms. Her husband has been condemned in the Quran.

  18. "..and what they used to worship"

    These 2 would be sinning together.... thats why they both get punished....

    Isn't it clear...?

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