I love my boyfriend dearly, and I want to get married to him. We get along great, but there are a few issues. Sometimes it seems like we're not on the same page, heck, not even the same book! I was just wondering if these are issues that can be dealt with, or is our relationship doomed? I know that everybody has flaws, and I'm sure there's things that I do that drive him crazy also, but in the long run, I want it to work. I want to be with him. But are our differences too great?
The issues are:
-Money- I am frugal, and he's a big spender
-Work Ethic- I've had the same job for 12 years, he's never worked at a job for longer than a year and a half
-Dealings with Mom- My mom and I talk every day, but she doesn't interfere in our relationship. He lets his mom tell him what to do (because she helps him out with money), and is always nervous about making her angry
There are a few other minor things, but those are the ones I'm most concerned about.
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