Will communication skills help my intimacy?

Question

if theres a diffrents,is there a good book out their classes or some were i can go to lern this powerfull tool,thanks

Answer 1

Communication skills are one of the most important skills that we need to possess (or learn) to live in this universally diverse world.

It is a basic necessary tool for everyday living.

So, good on you for aspiring to learn and master it !

Congratulations !

I looked up some websites.

http://www.queendom.com/tests/access_pag...

has some tests (argument style, relationship satisfaction, etc to gauge your level ) and it also contains advice, articles, and polls.

So, do look it up.

Another website also had interesting info.

http://sfhelp.org/08/intimacy.htm

This website has an informative article and

checks your 'intimacy pulse'. An excerpt below :

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My partner and I each have a clear, compatible  definition of “re/marital intimacy” now. (T  F ?)

We've had a meaningful discussion on our intimacy needs and satisfactions in the last six months. (T  F ?)

On a scale of 1 (very dissatisfied) to 10 (totally satisfied), I’d say my partner’s recent intimacy satisfaction in our relationship is about a ___.

On the same scale, I’d rate my own recent intimacy satisfaction as a ___.

Among our current mix of discomforts, neither my mate nor I have a significant “intimacy problem.” (T  F ?)

If we do have a problem, I see it as our problem, not yours or mine. (T  F ?)

My mate and I have compatible definitions of interpersonal vulnerability now. (T  F ?)

My partner and I can talk about our intimacy needs and conflicts comfortably and clearly now. (T  F ?)

There is nothing about myself or our lives that I fear discussing honestly with my mate now. (T  F ?)

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Sounds quite promising !

These websites have other links that you might be interested to look into, as well.

Take your time exploring and enjoy your communication skills learning.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Communication skills can help you with your intimate relationships, because they are, after all, based on communicating.  

There are plenty of books on the subject, so you can try the library.  And even a google search could turn up info.  Most colleges have a communications department, so I'm sure classes abound.

Good luck :D