Will he ever come back?

Question

We were together for four years and we loved eachother to bits....we were also the best of friends.and like most good things in my life this had to end too.a new job, a new country, work pressure and peer pressure to constantly be someone that he is not changed him and made us grow distant.we started having fights over the phone.i was under pressure too...my dog was dying.on a desperate attempt i got my passport made and applied for a tourist visa. it was a nine day visit for the most part of which i simply held him close to me and cried.it is hard to let go of a friend. but i have to let go now.do not know if it is the right thing to do. do not know if i will ever feel this way. i feel plain guilty picturing myself with anyone else.wish i knew how to win him back. he seems very hesitant. will he ever realise how much we loved eachother?will he ever come back to me someday...do not have the heart to go through with this. really loved him. still do.

Answer 1

u need to listen to the song of Leona Lewis- Better in Time. so go and move on in life this is what life is all bot that u meet ppl u love t hem and one day u have to leave them (due to job, situations anythng) so respect ur love for him and try to be happy

Answer 2

One should never have desires, attachments etc. It is only b'cos of ur these drawbacks u r feeling & got hearted. Anyway be strong, brave, be practical. may god bless u.  

Answer 3

Time heals everything. How do you know that he is the ONE? Don't feel guilty. Move on.