Will he ever come back to me??

Question

My boyfriend broke up with me in june. Since then, it has been like a roller coaster of emotions. We had been talking once in a while until 2 weeks ago when he told me he was dating this girl. I said some pretty strong stuff (out of hurt feelings and anger) and then, so did he..

Before we broke up , he and I used to be the " perfect couple". It was obvious we cared about each other so much and were so in love... He has always been romantic and attentive to me..

THings just didn't work out...

How is it possible that a loving relationship will go downhill?? Was the love real?

I think it was... But how did it happen that we crumbled??

I am so hurt... I miss him still... I keep trying to find excuses to like that we broke up, but in the end, I know I still love him...

Now he is not talking to me.. I had been kind of stalking him for a month or so.. I 'd call like several times a day and all... I didn't mean to do that , but you are in pain, you feel like you have no control..

I am so hurt too with his family, for supporting his decision to break up with me... We were so close, his mom and I...

WHen will this pain go away? And is it possible that he will ever regret it, miss me like h**l and come back???

THanks.

Answer 1

I know there's no easy answer but time is the healer of all pain and broken hearts.  Now is the time where you have to believe in yourself, find your inner strength, and show yourself what you're made of.  Karma has a way of biting people in the butt.  I've been in your same situation in the past and when the guy came back 9 months later, the same guy I had cried so many tears over and hurt me so badly, guess what?  I no longer wanted him.  The risk of that scenario repeating itself wasn't something I ever wanted to go through again.  Besides, I realized I deserved much better.  If he loved me he wouldn't have left me in the first place.  So karma bit him in the butt and in the end there was justice.  And there will be justice for you too, just be patient because things have a way of balancing out, trust me on this.

Please force yourself to ignore him, even if you're thinking about him, do not contact him.  Be a strong woman, take all that hurt that you don't understand and lock it up, accept that it's a mystery but don't let it hold you back from moving forward.  Best of luck!