Will he miss me??

Question

HELLO...ive been on and off with my ex for a year and a half...i recently found out that he has a new girlfriend (not from him but from a friend of ours)...i just told him to stop contacting me because its the only way for me to move on..weve been friends after we broke up and would sometimes hook up..its hurts me now that he has a new girl..i wonder with no contact will he miss me?? and do u think he'll call?? OF COURSE im moving on...i have a lot of hobbies such as going to the gym, hanging out with friends on the weekends, clubbing, working during the week etc...but i wonder if i dont contact him in like months will he ever miss me and think about me??

Answer 1

Why did ya'll break up? That would be the key to your question.If you cheated on him or did something mean or rude , he most likely wont. But if you broke up becasue of a more pleasant reason most likely he will miss you.But dont let that linger in your head.The only reason it would is if you still care about him.If he loves you and misses you enough he'll come back.But until then just get out and enjoy life, dont live it worrying.

Answer 2

yes i bet he will miss you

Answer 3

sure. he is thinking of you right now. thanks for the 2 pts.

Answer 4

let me put it this way...

I was in a relationship with my ex for 8 1/2 years...one day out of the blue..he left me.. he wanted to break up..he avoided me like the plague.

I couldnt get to talk to him or resolve anything. So how do you think that made me feel??  Like I wasnt missed or was not wanted... and I wasnt..not at the time..

But you know what??

A year and a half later...I get a phone call from him... YES..a phone call...to apologize to me for what he did..it was weighing heavily on his mind...he missed me, he thought the grass would be greener on the other side..but it wasnt.

It was the biggest mistake he ever made Ive been told.

By that time it was too late...I had already found love again.  I did forgive him..but I will never ever forget what he did... he DEVASTATED me!

So it is human nature that after being wit someone for so long...that YES they will miss you ...time goes on and he may call you again one day..but right now he is not ready to.  

Im glad you are keeping yourself busy....

BELIEVE ME..no contact has got to be the hardest thing... it sucks.

For you time heals..and I swear to you it does.

One day when you least expect it...I am sure you will hear from him again...

you may already have found someone else to love by that point.

Keep your spirits up!

Answer 5

Well you guys have been together for a year and a half. So, there will be certain times when he'll miss you at the beginning of his relationship. Most relationships that don't end badly will go through certain phases when they've acquired a new one. Some stages are comparison..is this person the same as the other person? Or it might be who is better at who? It's usually to go through the first part of "was it a mistake?" or  "am I moving on too soon?" Or for some, they are completely complacent and happy with where they stand..I think it depends on how long you guys have broken up. The faster he gets into a relationship, it's most likely a rebound deal (in my opinion)

But to me, you shouldn't care. Yeah, it sounds nice to know if someone misses you or not..but I think that you should definitely get over it. To wonder if he misses you is to have hope of getting back. If he is dating someone else, it seems to me like he is making a big step towards moving on himself.

I'm happy that you definitely have a lot of stuff to keep your mind off of him :) On-off relationships are never good anyway

Answer 6

its depend on situation if the new girlfriend hurt him he will miss u if she give more love then u then he will never miss u..