Will he miss me???

Question

HELLO...ive been on and off with my ex for a year and a half...i recently found out that he has a new girlfriend (not from him but from a friend of ours)...i just told him to stop contacting me because its the only way for me to move on..weve been friends after we broke up and would sometimes hook up..its hurts me now that he has a new girl..i wonder with no contact will he miss me?? and do u think he'll call?? OF COURSE im moving on...i have a lot of hobbies such as going to the gym, hanging out with friends on the weekends, clubbing, working during the week etc...but i wonder if i dont contact him in like months will he ever miss me and think about me??

Answer 1

It's not for you to think about you have to think about yourself and not about him and what he might be thinking, those days are over.  You must be strong and ignore him, cause i a man will only do what you allow him to. If he knows that you still look for him in any sort of way he's going to use it when its convenient to him and you don't make someone a priority who makes you a convenience. Move on he'll be just fine

Answer 2

For awhile.  Then he will move on considering you basically lost like I did Brandi.  He may wonder about you as we all do our friends "Whatever happened to...." but that will probably be about it.

My question is that if you really want to be over him why such a question?  It shouldn't matter one way or the other.

Answer 3

move on. just do it! ^_^

Answer 4

Your question shows that you didn't want him to stop contacting you. GET OVER IT AND ON WITH YOUR LIFE!!!!

Sorry about yelling but you do need to wake up. Don't be an easy hook up. You are worth more than that. Get more involved with a variety of people. You will never forget him but that is good. It will help you to grow and move on. He may not think of you often, he has moved on, but he also won't forget.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

Why do you care. You say " OF COURSE i'm moving on..." So move on.

Answer 6

if you were gonna use this tactic to get his attion the time to do it was the first time you 2 were "off", he seems to have moved on , your "hooking up" was only that. your right to move on, but for these situations it is best not to use the rear view mirror. looking back is not moving on.

Answer 7

It seems that he is moving on and so should you.  If you truly are moving on then you need not worry if he misses you or not.  We all would like to think that a past loved one will miss us after we are gone, but it is not really helpful question in the long run.  If yall aren't going to be together then what does it matter if he misses you.  Take this opportunity to find out what makes you happy and concentrate on yourself.  You don't need a man to miss you or want you to validate yourself.  Your happiness needs to be from within and not dependent on others.  Good Luck.