Will i be a bad mom

Question

i am going to be a new mom,i am very scared but i over react about everything with our dogs on the smallest things with them will this make me out to be a bad mother ,i don't to scare her but everything makes me worry

Answer 1

Don't worry your gonna do fine. Its normal for you to feel this way since this is your first child. At one point everyone feels like this but in the end they end up being a good parent and that's what you'll be just stop thinking your gonna be a bad mother because then when your baby is born your gonna think everything you do is wrong and your gonna keep thinking your a bad mother just try not to think about it too much and every things gonna be ok trust me .

I hope my advice helped !  

Answer 2

I think most people worry that they will be a bad mom but we end up with pretty good kids anyway so we must be doing something right.

If you are worried because you are afraid your baby will need you and you have a history of freaking out over little things, or if you mean you hurt your dogs when you are upset with them and worry that you will hurt your child, please ask your dr to refer you to a psychologist or parent training program. They can help you know what to expect and how to react before it happens. Often, being prepared and realizing its a stage a child goes through and not something the kid is doing to drive you crazy can help you stay patient and loving.

You can learn to be a good, patient parent but its better to start now before the baby is born than to wait until you do harm your baby if you are at all concerned.

I think the fact that you are concerned enough to post here and ask indicates that you love your baby already and will have the strength and determination to be a good mom.

I do have one question. Do you have family and close friends you can turn to when you don't know what to do? I called my mom so often when my daughter was small that I just about wore the phone lines out but its very comforting to have someone you can trust assuring you its normal or not as big a deal as it seems to you.

Congratulations.

Answer 3

i dont think that will ever make u a bad mom  

Answer 4

Remember your baby will react according to your own action/emotions. For example, when your baby is a toddler and he/she falls down. If mommy over reacts so will your child. Try to stay calm, no worries all first time mommies have this. Just the fact that you are concerned shows that you will be a good mommy.  

Answer 5

You're going to be a GREAT Mom!

Answer 6

if you do have issues, you should get some type of treatment to help you with it. I know a couple of friends with hysterical mothers who make their lives h**l !

it doest necssarily mean you will be a bad mom, as long as you can learn to controll yourself.

good luck with the new baby.

Answer 7

It is never Bad to be worried for your child's safety and reactting to those things are healthy ,all moms have worries and want their children to be safe,healthy along with other long lists that's what makes us moms .....suggestion-catch Pen and Teller on moms they did a great segmnet on all sides of fears we moms have and debunked a lot of myths and unnescary fears......just relax and you will fall into your role as mom.....