Will i come across as a pushover, if i send my ex a happy Bday text?

Question

I dont have inentions of getting back with her. Just want to show her at least i rememberes cuz we still talk occassionaly.

Answer 1

If you really do talk "occasionally" then yes...if you have just talked a couple of times since you broke up then get over yourself and leave her alone.

Answer 2

No, that's a nice thing to do. Just don't go and buy her expensive an expensive gift. that'd be going overboard.  

Answer 3

Are you texting her as a friend? Or do you still have feelings for her?

If you are truly done, I can't see any harm unless you know she doesn't feel that way. I had an ex I would call like that, on occasion...she'd end up at my apartment within a day of the call and I'd end up beating her feelings around.

If the spark is completely out, that is one thing. If not, do what is best for both of your emotional well-being.

Answer 4

No, that will be very nice.  You would be a push over if you guys didn't talk at all and your texting her Happy Birthday but if you talk to her occasionally and there's no bad blood between the two of you, go ahead.  She may be happy to hear from you.

Answer 5

Since you still talk to her occassionally, it would be a nice gesture, and will not make you look like a pushover or that you want to get back together. It just shows that you remember her bday. Just don't go buy her a gift or a card. She might get the wrong idea.

Answer 6

If she is your ex why are you still talking to her?  Do you still have feelings for her, is she with someone else now, if she is then leave her alone, grow up and move on with your life.

Answer 7

Not a good idea. Stop talking to her so much. When she has a new  bf, the new bf won't want her communicating with you and vice versa.