Will i ever get over my low self confidence?

Question

My boyfriend of 4 years tells me all the time that i am beautiful and i get hit on a few times (not being cocky) but for some reason, i feel ugly. I feel that there are so many pretty girls out there and im not one of them. Can someone please tell me how i can get over my low self esteem?

Answer 1

Get a boob job...lol

Answer 2

Don't compare yourself to others. You should love yourself for who you are, because it sounds like your boyfriend does. You should feel happy with that alone. We as women need to stop comparing ourselves to other women and be happy that the ones close to us accepts us for who we are.

Answer 3

a funny thing happens with age - you get over your self confidence issues - but by that age you start to wonder why you aren't getting hit on as much!!  maybe it's the 15 years and 15 ok 20 pounds!!!

Answer 4

I am the same way - I've had boys tell me I'm pretty etc, but yet I still have this feeling that I'm not, and have the exact same thought that there are lots of pretty girls out there and I'm not one of them. I like to think that I will gain confidence as I get older, and gain more experience. But meanwhile I try and look at it from a positive point of view - at least I'm not one of those really pretty girls who actually know they are, because most have a really really bad personality and attitude towards others. Hope my opinion helps