Will it be right to take b'day revenge!?

Question

Ok so....i turned 11 on 11th april 08,and that day..i had no party or stuff and my parents were behaving very normal...my elder brother who is 19 always PEEPS into what i do on the net and that day i was on yahoo answers asking some questions (will provide links)....

he came and peeped..i was already VERY depressed so i said "ATLEAST LEAVE ME TODAY!!!!"and started crying...but he didnt stop..i took away his net....and i cried for 3 whole hours....and becoz of him THE WHOLE DAY WAS SPOILT!

im the girl f the family n i always keep surpises and gifts of bdays and other ocassions...but on ma bday daddy said that u spoil his bday too...jus the way he did...bcoz i was very frustuated....turning 11 was a gr8 deal for me!!

now!

his birthday is on 22nd aug.....he is turning 20!

i totally hate him!

what should i do??can i take revenge?

bcoz what he did to me is unforgettible...

and he does it everyday

he is always trying to spoil my mood

he is a total rascal,a devil!

i hate him!!

i reeli wanna do it!!plz tell me how!

Answer 1

let it go.... jus let it go.... no one has spoiled any body's birthday here, its jus ur age & over expectations on few things.... dont do anything stupid.... u have many more birthdays to come, u'll have ur share of fun in life, revenge has never solved anything, it has only made things worse for everyone which will include urself.... hey anyhow, a very belated many more happy returns of the day to u Aarti (star of the future which looks very bright).... :) have fun & dont fight....

Answer 2

I'm sorry but that second paragraph is a bit confusing.

Answer 3

Girl it's you age gap that is why he is acting that way.  Your brother loves you, I can see that.  My brother is worst than your brother. But until I turn to 18 then I realised how much he is concern and loved me.  He still act like a child to you because you are still 11.  Don't ever do a revenge to him.  It's not good girl.  He is your eldest brother. Why don't you just try to be closer to him. Try to ignore of his jokes. Don't be sensitive.  The more you show you are affected with what he is doing the more will make fun of you.