Hi there, Thanks in advance for your answers..
Ok here it goes
4 years ago I started dating my wife. I got her prego and we had our first child. Before our first our s*x life was great. But rather straight forward nothing adventures After him things slowed down pretty bad but I understood all the issues women have with being a new mom and all, and we had a child together so I stayed with her.
10 months later, She got Pregnant again so we got married. Don't get me wrong we didn't just get married cause of the kids we love each other very much. But between the kids and after #2 our s*x life sucks.
She is pretty good about not putting me off to long and she has good "Os" when we do do it but my problem is that she doesn't really want to do it. She never comes on to me and never wants to do anything new.
Now being 9 years older than her and having much more experience. I am used to s*x being more of a mutual satisfaction thing, where I sometimes do things I don't enjoy as much just for her pleasure and vise versa.. But my wife is not interested in anything other than just the same ol same ol. Without getting to graphic I Hope you understand what I mean. No oral or anything else.
I have tried talking to her about it so many times I have all but givin up on her ever loosening up and I don't know what to do anymore. I have more than one girl that is offering me all the things I am craving no strings attached but I do not want to cheat or to end my marriage. But the temptation is really strong.
So anybody got any advise? Anybody else ever gotten someone that was sexually repressed to loosen up and live a little? Or does this just come with age.
Or do I just need to get used to the mundane side of s*x and forget my desires?
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