Will losing your virginty hurt less if youve been fingered first?

Question

Will losing your virginty hurt less if youve been fingered first?

Answer 1

Not unless the dude taking your virginity is the width of a finger.

Answer 2

Yeah because that usually pops your hymen and stretches your vaginal opening. That's the reason why s*x (the first time) hurts, your v****a has never had anything of that size in there.

Answer 3

Yeah how old are you.

Answer 4

egh!

Answer 5

Wow. I don't know how old you are. But its best you know now I guess. Losing your virginity is gonna hurt regardless.Fingering only makes you use to the feel. After a while it won't hurt! Hope that helps. :)

Answer 6

Gradually break yourself in. Maybe start out with the narrow end of a carrot, then progress to fingers, then to cucumbers, them to wine bottles in case of well endowed gents.

Answer 7

just make sure he streches you a bit when he fingers you  

Answer 8

i wish i was the one fingering

Answer 9

That depends. If while the boy fingers you he stretches or even breaks a little flap of skin called the hymen, then having s*x for the first time will hurt  a whole lot less. If the boy is just rubbing and such, losing your virginity will hurt just as much.

Answer 10

No, just NO! From the tone of your question, it seems like you need the advice of an older sister! Hello, I'M your NEW older sister...(but The COOL one!)

Don't let ANYONE tell you any differently, your "first time" is going to hurt!

Fingered or not.  As your "cool" older sister, I should tell you that loosing  your virginity should be with someone special, with someone that you love and I KNOW that you've heard it all before. This is something you will remember for the REST of YOUR LIFE- make it worth it! Giving up your virginity to someone is giving up a part of yourself that you will never get back!  I wasted mine on someone who was looking to settle a bet(i found out later!), I'm 40 now, and I never forgot it.

If it comes to that, get "fingered" all you want, they can't take your virginity for THAT, and playing around doesn't hurt anyone. When there comes a time you want to "Go all the way" PROTECT yourself!  The guys don't care about diseases, it's ALL up to you! Don't suffer for the rest of your life for one act that SHOULD be a FOND memory!

Don't tell Mom and Dad I told you this...(LOL)

Good Luck, Be SAFE!!!

Answer 11

Oh god, how old are you?

Answer 12

yes, because it slightly stretches out your v****a, making it More easier for a p***s to fit.

make sure to use protection :)

Answer 13

No. Anyone who has masturbated has been "fingered"...

Answer 14

naw losing your virginity is going to hurt like h**l the first time. as long as you are relaxed it wont hurt so bad. It's only the first time that it hurts after that it wont hurt unless he is too rough on you

Answer 15

it depends on the person besides a person's finger isnt long enough to loosen it up further down otherwise you loose your virginity by being finger. It may help by stretching the skin but basically thats it.  

Answer 16

most definitely...

Answer 17

Thinking about this question, nobody can really tell you the answer because if you've been fingered and then had s*x you can't go back and be a virgin and try it again without getting fingered. Everybody's first time is different, some people hurt, some people don't. I was fingered before I had s*x and it still hurt. Oh well. Have a good day!

Answer 18

Umm.. not really.

One main thing that makes it "hurt" is being nervous and scared - it not being the right time.

If you are comfortable, relaxed, and fully content with your actions, your nerves and muscles will be more relaxed which will make the experience more enjoyable for you.

Fingering, or even masturbating for some time may help you lesson the nervousness you may experience the first time.

Answer 19

it verys from female to female

the best thing is use tons of lube and protection.

if you cant afford protection then its not worth having s*x

here this site will help you

http://plannedparenthood.org

Answer 20

It is going to hurt either way

Answer 21

yes

Answer 22

Look at your finger, look at a p***s, I don't think it's going to make a bit of difference.

Answer 23

hopefully not... hopefully his p***s is bigger than a finger...

Answer 24

Umm, It didn't hurt my first time, and I got that ALOTT.

Answer 25

If when you were fingered your hymen broke then it may not hurt as bad, but chances are it will still hurt a little.  More than likely your partner is a little bigger than a finger or fingers, so there is more girth.  Regardless of his size, make sure that he takes it slow and knows it is your first time.  The worst thing he could do is slam right into you.  Relax, make sure there is plenty of lube, and that you take it slow at first.

Make sure you use a condom, too, otherwise your next question could be asking if labor hurts.

Answer 26

Actually whether your first time having s*x will hurt or not depends on the person.  I suppose fingering can help stretch you out some...

Funny thing about me is that it was fingering that led to my hymen being broken.  I bled, but had no pain.  So I figure that I was one of the lucky few who wouldn't have felt pain during their first sexual encounter.

I suggest that if you wish to attempt s*x see how many fingers your BF can use on you without you feeling uncomfortable or really tight down in those regions.  It'll give you an idea of what you can handle without feeling uncomfortable or pain.

Answer 27

As a guy, I have no idea but it would make sense that yes it would hurt less.  If you all nervous about having s*x and it hurting - go out and get a big *** s*x toy and go to town.  Once the cherry is popped and your muscles down there get accustomed to taking in big daddy - you should be fine.  Please send my your e-mail address - LOL - only kidding

Answer 28

wow i dont think so wtf ask the person whos gonna finger you.

Answer 29

I believe so. It helps stretch you out so I highly reccommend doing this.

Answer 30

If your a cutie with a booty, it's not going to hurt you.

Enjoy it, relax, let loose. Fingering helps the shock factor though, I guess.

Answer 31

I will only say It wont make it more painful, I recommend using lube and letting you relax as much as possible and he should be as gentle as possible, I doubt that you are ready for this, and you only get one first time. I would like to caution you also that breaking the hymen is nothing compared to the pains of pregnancy, and since no form of birth control is 100% effective you should be prepared for pregnancy eveytime you have s*x. Good Luck