My daughter is 19 and has been dating this guy for about 2 1/2 years now. We never really liked him. He was a few years older, they spend too much time together, he doesn't have a very well paying job, and me and my husband just never ever thought he would be good for her. After 2 1/2 years I dont want this to get any more serious than they already are becasue I dont think they should be together, I dont like him being with her. About a month ago we gave her her choice. That she either ended it with him, or we would stop paying for her college. We gave her another month to decide her choice. Im worried because now she just crys all the time, hardly speaks to us, and is doing poorly in school now, and still hasn't ended it with this boy. Im conflicted, because he is no good for her, but im worried about her getting depressed if she does choose to end it. She says she won't end it with him, but still asks we continue to help pay for her college.
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