Will my feelings toward baby go away?

Question

well i was a only child for 10 years and even through i gotton use to my sister(4) and her cousins(4) i cant stand babies i dont jnow why but i have no patience i dont know why but because im been deemed as mean

How do i get used to babies

ps im 14

Answer 1

Uve been around too many children and its obviously annoyed you in a way

You have curtian chemicals in your brain, When you have a lack of somthing lets say... Water to stop yourself from dehydrating.  One chemical raises more then the opposite chemical.

Iff you want to get used to babys but dont like them automaticly when you go into a room.  Then live with it or control your brain to do what you truly desire..

I hope this helped ,  Also

Free movies no download  (Streaming movies via web browser)

www.alluc.org

www.davidmovie.com

www.cinecast.us

www.joox.net

www.peekvid.com

Enjoy =)

Godspeed

Answer 2

you're 14 it's understandable that at this stage in your life you might not be keen on babies. I think when I was 14 I wasn't keen on anyone lol! just try and be patient with your sister and try and get your own space to chill out for an hour or even just go for a walk. don't think you're mean, eventually you'll like babies but right now I imagine you have your own stuff to deal with, don't worry!

Answer 3

Don't worry, it's normal. Up until a few months ago I wasn't exactly maternal. Now, I'm somewhat different and I love babies. Not that I'm a mother or anything.

To get used to them, be around them more. My aunt has an 11 month old daughter and she's great! At first I hadn't a clue, but it's great watching her grow. Each time I see her she's learn something new and is that bit more lively, I can't wait until she talks properly.

So, be around them more. Although, I don't see why you need to get used to them. It comes with age I think, I'm sure when you're older you'll want a child of your own. You don't really need to be good with them, unless you're planning to babysit or god forbid have one.

Answer 4

I can't stand babies either- I just never associate with babies. However I have been an only child for 17 years. I think it's going to stay that way.

Answer 5

Personal preference, not everyone likes babies.

But you were a 4 year old once so have patience with them.

If you want to get used to them, baby sit and stuff. Not everyone likes babies though, so don't bother if your intrested in looking after them.. You can't put it in a cupboard when your done, so if your going to baby sit, make sure your intrested in it.

Edit: Thats fine then, your just not a baby person. You might grow out of it, you never know :]

Answer 6

Well.. um.. ur only 14. Are u preg or something?

Answer 7

I really didn't have much use for them when I was your age either, I was in my early 20's when I first got pregnant....I adored mine and still do now that their in their 30's....but still other peoples, not so much.

Answer 8

Well, right now it's a relatively healthy feeling and appropriate - as long as you're not hurting kids.  Why try to get used to babies?  You have many years to develop a desire, it will come eventually - it took me until I was 28 to want a child myself.  Before then babies were creepy and I did not understand the appeal at all.

Answer 9

start babysitting alot

you will make money and get used to babies

Answer 10

Grow up. Dont be too jelous. Baby needs more attention than you.

Answer 11

I just think it's personal prefrence some people are not meant to be parents. It's not a bad thing just what you prefer. I'm an only child and I love kids so I'm in college as an education major it just depends on your personality.

Answer 12

some people are not baby people. my sister is like that she does not like being bothered with kids. but maybe in the future those feelings will change

Answer 13

not everyone likes to be around babies. the good thing is that they grow up, hopefully into nice people (like you, right?) it's not mean if you care about the child, and but just don't have patience for crying and tantrums. if you just plain don't like the child period, that's kind of mean. babies don't mean to be annoying, that's just how they are until they can express themselves in words, gain mobility and learn how to understand how to act with people.

Answer 14

you are still in that selfish stage of life where you only think about yourself, give it a few years and once you have your own baby you will love it unless you just got pregnant to get child support