Will my girlfriend relationship last?

Question

I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years already. We are very much in love with each other. She's the only girl for me. She's has some needs and I've been giving her oral. But I don't want to recieve s*x ever. I already understand that if I don't pleasure her, she will leave me. Will our relationship last?

Answer 1

If she leaves you jsut because you dont give her "oral" then hmmm thats pretty selfish of her. Relationships should be based on being with each other. loving each other, not entirely on s*x. s*x is an added bonus. Try having s*x before then giving her "oral" maybe that will help. But for her to leave you just because of that is very immature and selfish.

Answer 2

Why do you think that if you don't please her she will leave you?  She doesn't please you and you didn't leave her..

If she is that shallow...........probably not.

Answer 3

So you don't want to "receive s*x ever" or you are waiting until marriage? You are right, she does need to be satisfied however, relationships are about more than just s*x. If you have been together for 6 years...at what point will you move to the next level? Perhaps it is time to discuss marriage to see if you both have the same goals for the future. Once married perhaps you will both feel more comfortable in exploring and satisfying one another's needs.