Will my middle school years be bad?

Question

I was never "cool" in elementary school.I will list the reasons why and you can tell me if you think my middle school years will be bad.By the way these problems are still happening.

1.asthma

2.glasses

3.braces

4.i'm 5"6 and weigh 62 lb.

5.i have six older brothers (i don't see a problem with that but last year people said my mom was a hoe/prostitute)

6.I have a weak stomach and cafeteria food makes me sick

7.my family can't afford the "cool" clothes

8.i have terrible allergies so my mom makes my carry a pack of tissues wherever I go

9.all of my brothers went to that middle school and they did things that made their years tough

10.everyone there will call me by so-and-so's sister

11.i make straight a's

12.my mom said she'll come once every week to make sure every thing is okay and she always calls me "ginny dear" (unless she's furious)

13.my hair is so ugly (at least everyone says so)I'ts long straight and red

Will my middle school years be bad?

Answer 1

im going to tell you this honestly.

kids in middle school can be cruel, just try to not let any of it get to you.

so yes, because of your circumstances they might be bad.

focus on your education, first and foremost and not on what other people think or say about you.

Answer 2

Bullies dont really exist in middle school. If someone gives you lip, just watch Mind of Mencia. Then you'll know what to do.

Answer 3

When you go into middle school, you can really be whoever you want.. When i went into middle school [ still in but in a higher year ] someone that had glasses etc, became a popular [ that's what we call it :P ]

So don't let yourself down... Focus on grades! Just think one time you will see those people who bullied you not get far in life while you have a very successful life

Answer 4

Chin up. Try improving on attitude and don't seem so akward while walking by yourself.

Answer 5

NO...unless you make it that way. Always keep your head high and look for at least a friend who you can hang out with if not then really you don't need anyone you just need a lot of confidence in yourself...maybe join sports to meet new friends they will love you for who you are<3

Answer 6

It depends. Middle school is gernerally bad for most people just because the kids are so mean and judgemental. If you stay friends with the people you're friends with and don't try to fit in into the 'cool' crowd you will probably be alright. Don't let anything that the kids say get to you, it doesn't mean anything. Good luck.

Answer 7

Just tell them bullies at the middle school to,"s***w YOU" if the try to pick on you.

Be yourself and don't take any body's whining, complaining, etc..

GO YOU.  

Answer 8

Not being "cool" isn't necessarily a problem.  Do you want to be cool?  What will help is to have one or two (or a few) friends around who like you for who you are.  It may help you to make a list of your positive qualities, so that you can feel more confident and not just focus on the things you think make you a target.

Remember, you can't control others, but you can affect your own life.  If you don't like your hair style, change it to something you do like.  If you don't want your mom to come by, ask her not to.  Pack a lunch if you don't like the cafeteria food (I'm sure you won't be the only one).

Many people find middle school hard because it's a time of transition, when students want to fit in and feel very self-conscious.  From what you say above, it sounds like you've already felt that, so I don't think it will feel that much different (not worse, anyway).  You could even find it better while most others students are feeling self-conscious and worrying about grades.

Best wishes!

Answer 9

You're dead.

Answer 10

1.asthma?only geeks have that

2.glasses?you're a four eyes freak

3.braces?okay fence mouth

4.you're an anorexic idiot

5.you mom is a s**t in all thats 7 kids!

6.haha i wish i would be there to see you puke in front of everyone!

7.no duh they have to pay for all of your stupid medical needs

8.just make sure your snot doesn't fly across the room

9.good that means you won't be the only one

10.why shouldn't they?thats who you are

11.brown noser

12.i wish i could watch you be embarassed

13.ewwwwww it IS ugly

Answer 11

I'm not really sure, but no matter what its like try and make the best of it and keep up your good grades because that is the most important thing. Lots of Luck

Answer 12

Well my first advice is you shouldnt care what other people think of you. You are who you are and you dont need other peoples approval. Im going to go through you list and comment on what i think.

1. People have asthma it happens just make sure you have your inhaler at PE

2. People have glasses you will not be the only one. Dont worry about it!

3. Your braces wont be there forever and its way better to have them early in life so that when you get to high school you will have nice straght teeth.

4. So your tall and skinny i would just make sure you by clothes that are good for your body type. I would rather be tall and skinny than short and fat be proud of who you are.

5. The brothers shouldnt matter unless there gonna pick on you during school and what those kids are saying about for mom is c**p. Dont let what people say effect you.

6. I think cafeteria food makes everyone sick. I usually just make myself  a PB&J its fullfilling and yummy. Bring your own luch istnt bad unless you bring it in a big lunchpale

7. My parents cant afford "cool" clothes either i just try to find those stores that have cute clothes for low prices. So what if your not weearing name brands. you need to show people to accept you for who you are.

8. I have really bad allergies to i just make sure i take allergy medicine every mourning so im not snezzing crazy in class and haveing a pack of tissues in your backpack is not a bad thing. I do and a lot of people somethimes need one. Its handy

9. If your brothers middle school years were bad doesnt mean that yours are your can take a differnt path

10. if you are going to be called so and so's sister dont trip. People who learn who you are and know that your differnt from your brother.

11. Straight A's are not bad and you should not be ashamedand straight A's will probably change when you go to middle shool because its harder

12. Haveing your mom come to school would be bad i would tell her its embrassing i dont even let my mom drop me off in fromt of my school.

13. and with you hair maybe you need a hair cut maybe add some layers and you might want to start doing something differnt with you hair try parting it differently and doing some up do's a little change wont hurt. If you have the same hair syle forever it will get boaring and iff you haveing problems on how you want your hair cut try looking in magazines for someones hair you like then take that picture to the person who will cut your hair

I hope my advice helps!

Answer 13

YOU KNOW WHAT. People might give you a hard time (maybe) but s***w them. They don't know how nice you are inside. Just hang out with your friends and don't listen to any negative things. I mean look, your a person, not a fish. LOL. Good luck!

-Joey M.

Answer 14

yes, but not because of your list.

middle school is bad for everyone.

middle school is full of more drama than high school.  

Answer 15

1.asthma

(did you choose to have asthma? no, so ignore it.)

2.glasses

(you could get contacts, but they're a pain sometimes. you didn't make your eyes bad, so ignore it)

3.braces

(you didn't make your teeth crooked, so ignore it. besides, you will have very nice teeth when you're older, and thats where it counts!)

4.i'm 5"6 and weigh 62 lb.

(this just sounds unhealthy to me. im 5'4" and 120 (or so) lbs. and thats after twins so, you should weigh at least 100 lbs for your height.)

5.i have six older brothers

(you did not raise your mom, nor did you impregnate her. respond with 'maybe, you could ask her.' that always throws 'em for a loop)

6.I have a weak stomach and cafeteria food makes me sick

(learn to cook like a champ, its an awesome skill for real life, you can bring incredibly yummy treats to school, and when you have a hot date, well...)

7.my family can't afford the "cool" clothes

(learn to sew. email me through answers and i will teach you all i know)

8.i have terrible allergies so my mom makes my carry a pack of tissues wherever I go

(purse! backpack! theres nothing like being prepared. PS you didn't give yourself allergies, so ignore it!)

9.all of my brothers went to that middle school and they did things that made their years tough

(don't follow in their footsteps. thats your choice)

10.everyone there will call me by so-and-so's sister

(tell them your name. being someones sister is an identifier: thats julies brother, jimmy. shes in swim club, her names suzie. just make sure they know your name)

11.i make straight a's

(keep being smart, you'll be someones boss in the future. ignore anyone who makes fun of you for this, they ARE jealous)

12.my mom said she'll come once every week to make sure every thing is okay and she always calls me "ginny dear"

(to the school? maybe once a month. having mom around may throw a wrench in things. or tell her that you'll let her know if anything is wrong)

13.my hair is so ugly... I'ts long straight and red  

(long hair is gorgeous, straight hair is lucky, and red hair, beautiful. i have lon straight blonde hair. you can braid it, bun it, ponytail it its awesome.)

so, all in all, you're ahead of the rest. some people make fun of everyone, they arent worth your time. i was an outcast for a long time, iand i remember my middle school years in detail. you have self respect. You don't need to buy into their teasing. i started making my own clothes in high school, and thats when i realized i didn't care what other people thought. at all. s***w em! rainbow overalls, peasant skirts (before they came back in style, i caused that you know) and other such insanity that reflected my SELF. most people will be dumbfounded by your ability to make clothes and wear your art, plus they can be made to fit you perfectly, higher quality, and you dont have that buyers remorse like when you get a shirt that looked better on the hanger. once you get out of school only the memories are important. im turning 23 this month, and have been through quite a ride. email me if you want. i make a pretty good friend, and ive always wanted to be a mentor ;Þ

just be yourself. no one will understand until they find themselves, but you'll be ahead of the curve.

Answer 16

ur hair sounds nice.

straight A's dont affect ur coolness

but the cool clothes are necessary.

ppl always (specially in school) judge by the way ur dressed and how u look.

if u cant afford the clothes though its alright.

people also love confidence so dont act shy.

by the way in my middle school years this girl was cool because the was confident and smart. all the popular kids talked to her to get help and were really nice to her. when anyone gave her a hard time they would stick up for her.

If they didnt she wouldnt help them. ;-)

Answer 17

Well, me neither.

i was never in the cool crowd.

my mom has 6 children. from 3 different men.

I wear glasses. switched to contacts maybe you should too.

i have braces too. no biggie.

I lived through it.

now im in high school.

be yourself.

thats all i can think of.

dont listen to all those ignorant ppls.

maybe ask your friends for a makeover?

Answer 18

Sorry to tell you, but it might just suck. Just kidding, just stay with your friends and it might not be that bad, but it might be a little suckish. There are tips for some of your problems.

1. Asthma-You wont get made fun of because of this, but gym gets a lot harder, so in gym, you may be in risk of an asthma attack, so dont push yourself and you should be fine.

2. Glasses-Nothin wrong with glasses. Half the people in this world have glasses. Wont get made fun of because of this

3. Braces- At my school, braces are cool. Especially if their in the school colors lol. I dont know about your school though

4.62 pounds -Sorry to tell you this, but youre weight may be a problem with some people cause 62 pounds may be considered anorexic. Maybe you should eat a little more, because thats pretty unhealthy also for your age.

5. Brothers- Not a problem. You get to switch classes, so you wont have those people in your class every period.

6. Bring your own lunch everyday and nobody will even know

7. Find some cute clothes on sale.

8. Carry a purse around, and keep your tissue in your purse, and nobody will care cause tissues are a normal thing to keep tissue in a purse.

9. Understand that you are not your brothers and that you are your own person and that you dont have to live in you brothers shadow if you dont want to.

10. Thats not a big deal. Thats not somethin you should be upset about.

11. Ummmm..... Since when was makin straight A's a bad thing lol? Thats like the super honor roll. Congrats on that!

12. Try to convince her to just call the school to make sure that everything is okay, and if there is a problem, then she can come to make sure youre okay.

13. Try something new with your hair. Dye it a different color and cut it into a bob or something like that.

Im not tellin you to change yourself. I'm just tellin you to be more confident and know that you are your own person. These are just tips to make your middle school experience go  a little bit more smoothly. If people make fun of you, then s***w them. Dont let them break you. Dont give them the satisfaction of seeing you break, because thats exactly what they want you to do

hope I helped. Bye