Will people view me different if suicide fails?

Question

ive been thinking about it for about ten months now but i dont have a guaranteed way of doing it so there is always that possibility that it fails, will people view me different and change their opinions of me, i dont want their opinions to change that much, thats not a problem now

Answer 1

If I really wanted to commit suicide, I would find a way that I would not fail. Isn't there anyone you can talk too. A friend, family, are things so bad that suicide is the only way out. Please get help.

Answer 2

You will likely be viewed as an attention getter, something like posting this question on yahoo answers. Not trying to be rude, but most people who decide to do it, do it. Its something you obviously don't WANT to do. If you need someone to talk to, or even just to listen there are free hotlines for that.You can even go to the hospital. They can get you the help you need. You can see your doc for antidepressants. Once your gone, your gone. Your not going to see people grieve over you, or miss you. And there is obviously no going back if you succeed. Your the director of your own universe, and the only one that can take charge and change things.

Answer 3

Stop thinking about killing yourself! Go get some help and stop walowing in your misery like some sick, sadistic person. If you've been dragging yourself out of bed every day and doing ordinary things, then you can drag your butt over to a psychiatrist too! Look around! You may not see it now, but the world is a beautiful place! Life is worth living you know. It really is!

Answer 4

It's very possible. For example, I see Owen Wilson very differently after his suicide failed.

Answer 5

100% gaurantee that not only will many people change how/what they think of you, many will change how the treat you.

I know, I attempted suicide on March 15, and my life changed so radically afterward that I'm still spinning.

Almost all of my "friends" abandoned me, my boyfriend raped me after I got out of the hospital, I lost my job, I became homeless.

Please insist that someone hear what's going on in your mind. Whatever's making you want to die is truly not worth losing your life for.

And, from experience, there's nothing more humilating in the moments I've lived through than being a "failed" suicide.

I'd rather be violently raped again than re live the ordeal in the ER, and 5 days on the local nut ward. (The ward wasn't too bad, just the lack of freedom, and crappy food.)

Answer 6

commiting suicide has gone wrong alot of times. I knew this man who shot himself trying to go suicide and now he is living with a tube in his head and is brain damaged with phlem comming out of his mouth. there was a tv show where another man tried to take pills and didn't die. he now is on dialysis for kidney failure. Dialysis is painful and stressful on the body and requires needles-OUCH! Your suicide can really go wrong and you will be seen as a loser who didn't want to make it through life and hang in there. there are people who are going through worse stuff than you. be strong and get if needed. death is forever, but living can get better and the sun will come out again.

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service available to anyone in suicidal crisis. If you need help, please dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You will be routed to the closest possible crisis center in your area. With more than 130 crisis centers across the country, our mission is to provide immediate assistance to anyone seeking mental health services. Call for yourself, or someone you care about. Your call is free and confidential.



God Bless.

Answer 7

I wouldnt commit suicide. Just dont, it is selfish. Also, yah they will view you like a ticking time bomb. talk to someone. you obviously care about them. They will view you at a funeral if it does work. just dont. talk to me if you need to.

Answer 8

uhhhh, i wouldn't do suicide????? (to the above) don't let people urge you to "not fail" it's a blessing if you don't comitt suicide. and yeah, people will think differnet of you if it doesn't work. i tired two years ago and failed. i've been in hospitals three times, been on every pill ever made, and have a handicapped hand. only three fingers work to type. plus i have a long scar on my arm from where surgary had to be done. i can't feel anything and i've lost everyone. my own mother treats me different. people with either do one of two things:

they will either treat you like a bomb waiting to go off

or

they will look and treat you like a mental case in which they want nothing to do with

there might be one person who wont treat you different, but the matter is...YOU won't feel the same. so please, save yourself a lot of heart ache. words cannot describe the pain that you and people who love you will feel. i'm serious. there is no words to describe it.

Answer 9

Try your best not to commit suicide in the first place, dude.

And if your gonna commit suicide than pick the most memorable way to do it... jump of of a really tall building, on fire!  

Answer 10

Yes.  But, do you always advertise your attempts?  If so, get some counseling.  Meanwhile do you know what a pariah is?  Then, dheck the dict. as to how your peers will react.