Will she be a good friend?

Question

Hi everybody! I am a freshman and it's hard for me to make friends,since the first day of school I'm always so quiet and never wanna speak to anyone. The worst part is every lunch, I don't eat, i just sit by myself...alone. Well the point is I started to be friends with this person and she's nice, but there's this girl who went to my middle school and I pretty much didn't like her because she was popular, until there was drama about her and she wasn't anymore. But now she goes to my high school! So every morning get off to the school I see the friend I was talking about, but one day i just came and found them both talking and didn't know how they became friends, so i tried to be her friend also. But now the new friend that I made is such a follower and everywhere the girl goes, she follows. If she's in a conversation with me suddenly the other girl will appear out of nowhere and say''oh lets go to breakfast or outside'' and my friend will go with her but tell me to come. But one day I became instantly tired with it I just stop talking to her because she always kept leaving me for the other girl when she saw I was lonely.Was It a good decision or bad?? and I really wanna know how to make friends and not be lonely at lunch.[[ P.S. Sorry For the Long Story♥]]

God Bless

Answer 1

pretty good

Answer 2

Smiley has a good point! God bless you as well, and no problem on long story, as sometimes lots of details is necessary!

Answer 3

Yup, they exist everywhere...

Im sorry, ive just had the SAME problem. You have to realize that your friend is a sheep and the mean girl, is a "leader" Please, get yourself out there! Get in clubs! Or talk to someone sitting in your class, because the friend you had was a sheep and had lost her follower so she found you! The mean girl, is not POPULAR, she never was, its just she had LOTS of sheep following her! Believe me, almost MY WHOLE CLASS are sheeps to theis ONE girl! LOL, Thats why Im moving schools. But, anyway, Forget about the other people, let them be, and if the sheep starts being nice to you, be kind back, but let her know, your not EXATLY interested, but there still is kindness there! Cause that sheep will turn on you IN SECONDS. as soon as the mean one says" I dont like her"  The sheep will say: "YA!"  So , go find other people, and PLEASE DONT BE SHY, FOR THE LOVE OF GOSH! Or else, youll be dealing with problems your WHOLE LIFE!