Will swinging put the sparkle back in a marriage ?

Question

To those who do it.....is it any good

Answer 1

I can't imagine what kind of marriage you'd have after you tried it.

Don't do it. There are other ways to spark up a relationship.

If you're looking for something kinky, why not take her shopping at an adult store. Some chains aren't as trashy as they used to be. Pick up a new toy you can use together.  

Answer 2

no way

Answer 3

Maybe for  bit.  But I would have the number of a good divorce lawyer on hand.

Answer 4

I would say no, a marriage has to already be great to withstand this lifestyle. There can't be any questionable problems and one partner can't be doing it just for the sake of making things better with their spouse. If you are having difficulties with sparkle fix it between the two of you first.

Answer 5

Why do you want sparkle. Can't you just settle for a slight glow?

Answer 6

If you need to ask this you are with the wrong person.  Your relationship should be fulfilling without the need for anything else.

Answer 7

Yes, if both of your feel some wanderlust and good sense of humor.  

Answer 8

Try to spice up your own sparkle to your marriage.You might be inviting more trouble than you can handle by bringing in someone else!!

Answer 9

Eeewww - when I think of swinging, I think of sad old gits.  No amount of your wife shagging sad old gits is going to put a sparkle back in any relationship.

Answer 10

Well it will take care of the need for s*x, but that isn't what's wrong with your relationship.  It is a communications problem, because your here asking instead of talking to your mate about it.

Answer 11

It will never solve the problems in your marriage, but it would be a bit of fun before your divorce.

Answer 12

No its not going to put a spark back in the marriage, all it is going to do is eventually end your marriage, YOu have to decide what you really want and go for it.

Answer 13

Aye for a bit then one of you will resent it  

Answer 14

Swinging is not personal. You will need to get the spark back by doing something more directly one on one.

Good luck

Answer 15

Swinging might put the sparkle back.  Be prepared for the backlash, jealousies, insecurity, cheating.

Im sure you can buy some books, movies or toys that will reignite the spark in your s*x lives.

Answer 16

Depends... is your spouse agreeable to swing?  If so, why not try.... just as long as both parties understand the situation and circumstances.