Will the child grow up to be insecure?

Question

If a grandmother was racist and did not want the mother to have a half black baby, how do you think that child would feel if she found out that she was unwanted.

Answer 1

It's not the grandmother's decision. If I was that child's parent, I would have supervised visitation while at the grandmother's house, or not even bring the child around the racist grandmother at all.

The only way the child can be insecure is if the child is in an environment that cause the child to be that way. MY CHILD would NOT be around a racist grandmother.

Answer 2

She was not unwanted by her mother and although it would be hard, in time I think she would accept it as being one of the things in life thats hard, but we can't do much about. Perhaps the grandmothers views would chance one she saw her granddaughter.  

Answer 3

hmm thats tough maybe not have the grandmother around