Will the feelings always be there?

Question

I recently had s*x with my guy friend and he has been avoiding me.I developed feelings for him so i was hurt when he distanced myself from me.

I think i am over him but i still like him as a friend.So i was thinking to contact him and let him know that i still want things to go back the way they used to.I haven't spoke to him in 3 weeks

So do you think this will work?

Answer 1

Why humiliate your self? He obviously does not want you enough and wants to be free to find some one else. Find a man who thinks you are the best  thing since sliced bread.  

Answer 2

if he is willing to have it work then yeah it will. i know plenty of friends that have done the something and then just go back to being friends. it can work, good luck to you

Answer 3

let it go n let him go things wont ever be the same. and u never know, he might have even found himself attacted to you and got scared. let him come around. in the mean time, move on and wait for him.

Answer 4

Hon you don't know if maybe he feels weird because he thinks you feel weird? You need to tell him you feel he's been avoiding you and you want to know if it's true.  Then take it from there but whenever there is no dialogue between two people it is best not to assume what they are thinking.  Like 99% of the time when I did this over my lifetime I was WRONG!

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