Will the right person just stay? Or do you just have to keep them?

Question

Hi everyone. A week and a half ago, I have gone through the ending of a 4 year relationship. It has been hard for me the couple of days. And since I am now 25 years old, I have been wondering if the right one has slipped away. Maybe, it's not my ex and the actual right one ...well, she's probably somewhere out there taken by somebody else already while all this time I was with this person for 4 years. My main question is, without my ramblings,will the right person just stay? Or do you just have to keep them?

Answer 1

Guessing your a male.. Ask your last girl to give you back your balls from her purse and loose your purse at that same time..

Fact is the best girls are snatched up right after 18.  The ones who are fun act goofy and love s*x... The rest are rejects.. You wasted 4 years of your life.. Once a girl is not going well you dump them.  Most guys don;t dump a girl when they want for fear they won't get any s*x for awhile or ever again..

Answer 2

Thanks for the two points!

Answer 3

Wow! I have actually wondered this myself. Spending 14 years in a loveless marriage. Wondering if that special someone is now with someone else. My soul-mate, the love of my life. No, I don't think so. It is all just a large c**p shoot. Sorry, probably not what you want to hear. I don't think you can make anyone stay that doesn't want to. You need to be compatible.

Answer 4

no. the right person wont always stay. people are funny and as much as we hate being alone, co-existing with someone long term is very hard for all of us. things get messy, confusing and crazy when two people and all those feelings that come with love are involved. it takes an effort on both sides! NEVER let someone you love go without a fight. (this is also good advice not just for keeping someone but to make you feel better too. no guilt if you were still willing to try and ended things trying)

anyway, on the same hand if it was meant to be then it will happen.

hope this helped  

Answer 5

There is no "right" one.

You are really young, so you have plenty of time to meet someone.

The person you want to be with should be compatible with you and that you are able to get past their bad stuff and the same for them.

Dont waste your time on lame people or lame situations.

Time is like money spend it wisely.  

Answer 6

I think that the right person will be someone that will want to stay with you by thier own choice. You are very young and have plenty of time to meet the right person. but in a relationship you have to put some effort into it so that the right person that you choose will stay with you. When you asked the question "Do you just have to keep them", then all I can do is assume that you mean that you should have kept the person that you was with but insteaad you hope that you will meet the right person. You have answered Your own question with the last question. Maybe your ex was not the person. You don't seem to be thinking of her or him to much, as to the fact that you seem to be wondering where the right person is. So that tells me that your ex was not the right person because if she or he had of been then you certainly would know it by now. So yes the right person is out there. And you do not need to settle for just anyone that will have you because love is a nice thing but if it is based on need or whatever then, it can never last. But when you a really in love then that will never fail. I hope this helps you out some. Have a blessed day.