Will they take my baby away for this?

Question

my sons father and i got in a argument today. he has texts of me threatening that my friends were gonna beat him up....we all met up at a park, he was willing to fight....but my friends didnt actually, they just sat in the car with me and my son....then my sons fathers friends started screaming that there was a gun in the back of the car (which there was not) they hit and kicked my friends car.....then asked the neighbors to call the police saying there was a gun in the car (which there wasnt)

so there was a police report filed and apparently cps is calling me tomorrow. his father has a felony pending. im seriously freaking out over this....could my baby get taken away because he was in the car when there couldve been a fight and supposedly was a gun, which was never seen cuz there wasnt one....and there was no actual fight....just his father and his friend screaming and kicking my friends car.

Answer 1

Yes he could possibly be taken away...that's not a healthy environment for a child and he should NOT have been there. i'm sure it scared him half to death.

Answer 2

I really don't know about the law

I hope you've learn t a lesson not to fight with your sons father in the company of your son.  It is very selfish even if he is a baby it has a terrible impact on him for life.

Grow up and stop fighting.  If you have to fight don't do it while kids are around.  

If you would love your kid you would not do this.

BE CAREFUL

Answer 3

I'm wondering why you would put that baby in that situation in the first place? Maybe you need to be under review, get it together woman. Put your child first.

Answer 4

In court, anything can happen with a good lawyer. If you find one good enough they'll do enough research to find a previous case like this to prove to the judge that you're innocent. If he finds a better one than they'll do the research to make you look wrong.

Either way, it usually ends up in joint custody. And even if they beleive him I don't think it's ilegal to have a handgun in the states if you live there, or let them search your house for a gun?

Best wishes to you and your family.  

Answer 5

If your life continues this way, you will loose your baby. You better start fresh, make a new life for this child. Your suppose to put away your old life if it is dangerous and give your child a safe environment to grow up in. Don't you want better for your baby?. I had to cut off friendships, and even quit hanging out with certain family members. A good mother will do whatever it takes.

Answer 6

Dont worry everything will work out right, if u didnt know there would be a fight and you didnt plan on it, it will be FINE, remember always tell the truth tho

Answer 7

If you are stupid enough to bring your newborn baby to a gang fight where there are possibly weapons, then you deserve to have your son taken away from you.

Seriously, why don't you grow up and take responsibility for your life and your sons?  Why would you want your *friends to beat him up" are you 13??

Answer 8

oh gawdd~your baby most likely wont be taken away, but it really sounds like your in a bad situation, there are homes for things like this, and you should probebly checck them out, the father sounds like a nutcase, for your safety i wouldnt confront him, the police will definently take care of it tho

Answer 9

No just explain how things happened and everything should be OK...

cps usually don't do anything the first time around... unless they have hard evidence... which they don't...

Answer 10

No.  You weren't the one that did anything wrong.  It's your sons father and his friends that resorted to violence and attacking the car.  

Answer 11

Probably not, but they may assign a social worker.

Answer 12

Why in the world would you take your kid to a park where you knew there might be a fight? That's immature. Maybe you forget that you have a kid to worry about now and it's not just you and what you want. You should've been worried about what your child was thinking when all this was happening. I'd imagine he was scared to death. No kind of parent in their right mind would take their kid anyplace like that. They should assign you a social worker and make you take some parenting classes or something.

Answer 13

Your baby could be taken away from its father for something like that.And if you were there then you were in it too which makes you a guilty party also. I don't know if they will take your baby away seeing as there was no gun and all that but this is considered very immature on everyone's part and that is not the best trait of a parent in the laws eyes. Just tell CPS the truth and I'm sure everything will be alright.

Answer 14

I'm sorry, but why did you involve yourself is stupid drama bullsh*t when you have your newborn son in the car?!? You are not a little kid anymore. It's not just about you anymore. YOU'RE A PARENT! Honestly I don't think that CPS will take your child because of this, but I'm sure they'll be watching you to like a hawk to make sure you're looking out for the best interests of your son---which by the way, you need to start doing.  

Answer 15

They probably won't.  However, I hope you learn from this situation and get out of it as soon as you can for your baby's sake.  I hope it works out for the best and good luck.

Answer 16

Sounds like someone other than you should be taking care of your child. Grow up...for your sake, and your child's. It's a shame that innocent children have to have parents like you.

Answer 17

That is awful. Get your son away from that because your son very well could get taken away with experiences like that.

Grow up you are a mother now

Answer 18

I don't know, but I really feel for your son growing up around things like that. I would never expose my son to such things.  

Answer 19

Wow!  If you even think there may be a fight you need to keep your baby far away.

If the police believe their was a gun then it is possible for your child to be taken.

I don't know, I would steer clear from anyone who may even threaten violence.

Your number one job right now is to protect your baby!

Answer 20

You brought your son to a gang fight? I hope they do take him away, because this is not the environment he should be growing up in.  

Answer 21

the fact that you would subject a little kid to that ridiculous situation (fights? GUNS? violence?) in the first place kinda makes me wish maybe they will do something. You brought your child into a dangerous and traumatic situation. it doesn't matter if there was actually a gun or not. no mother should subject her babies to things like that.

Answer 22

WTF were you thinking? For your baby's sake I hope they take him away. You may not be a mother if you're going to take your kid to gang fights.

Answer 23

CPS is a joke....... they got called out so many times when my mom and dad were going at it. just make sure everything is presentable when they come over and sound sure of your self on the phone.

Answer 24

you should not, however it sounds like the entire situation could be interpreted that you placed you kid in danger.  So be careful who you pick for friends.  With the responsibility of a baby, you need to be extra careful

Answer 25

absolutely not. there is no actual evidence that the gun was even placed in the back of the car or was even used during the argument. The police can't really do much without first actually identifying the situation. They need proof to support their opinion in how the case even occur. what they will do is ask u questions about what occur and the truth is the only key into solving this. just act normal and don't lie about one thing that happened during the furious argument and the damaging the car etc.

Answer 26

If you are mature enough to be bearing a child, then you and both parties friends should not be involved in such juvenile behavior. And i'm 17 and I know better,

Answer 27

They probably won't, but hopefully they will refer you to some parenting classes so your son doesn't have to go through that again.

Answer 28

it sounds like your situation as a parent needs to reevaluated. This is not the kind of environment a baby belongs in. Maybe your baby should be taken away or you and your baby need to leave your circle of "friends". A real parent would not be fighting in the park or having this kind of drama. it is time to grow up and be a mom. Why would you threaten the father of your baby with a beating by your friends and then show up?

You sound like a very irresponsible parent. So I would say you either need to remove your self from a toxic environment, for your baby's sake or have your baby taken away. These are not the actions of two responsible grown up adults.

Answer 29

No because there was no report done on a gun.but i don't know why you would have your son around all that stuff going on?sorry but you need to think about him.

Answer 30

I dont think they will take your son away but they may keep a close eye and you and your family for a while to see what the childs environment is like....just try to stay away from the drama for your son's sake

Answer 31

i don't think they will be taken but they will make sure your children are safe and being in a car that people are planning on fighting and things are not exactly safe take care of your babies don't worry about looser men get one that cares about you and them