Will this change our relationship? Please read. I need advise.

Question

My BF and I broke up in January. We started talking and hanging out again in May. We are sometimes intimate and I'm not really sure what's going on. I want to get back together, but I was trying to just let things play out and take it slow. I really miss him though.

About 2 weeks ago we had s*x. I didn't get my period tuesday when it was due. I have been on the pill since february 2007. i took 2 EPT's and they came back negative.

I still feel like I have to tell him what is going on because it could potentially concern him. Do you think this will change our chances of getting back together or ruin our relationship somehow? I'm going to tell him tonight when he calls me after dinner, but i just want to know what everyone thinks. Thanks!

Answer 1

Don't tell till you know is always my policy. no reason to get crazy if it is negative. if you tell him he will get freaked out and leave. what he don't know won't heart him. if you are tell him right away. if not leave it alone

Answer 2

Personally I wouldn't mention anything. Since the test came back negative. I don't think it will change what you have going on. But at the same time it could probably scare him to have s*x with you. Because he might think the the pill may not be a good source of birth control, and might get scared to get you pregnant especially if he's not ready for being a parent.

Instead I would ask him if there's a possibility for the the two of you to rekindle the flame. Good Luck!

Answer 3

tell him if he has feelings for you he will stay love has no boundies good luck

Answer 4

Definetly tell him. Im sure it will bring you closer together even if your not pregnant

Answer 5

I do think it will change the relationship but i dont think you are pregant and i also think that you should find out where you two stand as far as a relationship i do understand that you miss him find out if he feels the same sweetie