Will this help me? PLEASE answer!!?

Question

Hello, I'm going into 8th grade this year in the same school as last year, and almost everyone knows my name. I can't remember anything before fourth grade (bad memory but I'm top of my class, huh?), but my friends tell me I was a little weird, apparently. People have not gotten over that. AND IT'S 8TH NOW! JEEZ! Okay... anyways, also people say I obsess over the boys I like. I have done that and I remember that, it's recent. I try to be nice, but some people say really mean things that just make me fire something back.

I want people to get over themselves this year and I want to change their minds about me. My plan is to be extra nice and helpful to everyone, even the people I hate, and say nice things to the people who say rude things to me first, because that will make them feel like a jerk, and they'll realize I don't care. I'm just nice nice nice 24/7.

Also, I will NOT obsess over my crushes. I won't even tell anyone.

Will that help me? Thanks so much!

Answer 1

lol.............your cute......lol!

Answer 2

omg totally!

dont obsess over dumb boys they're no good... very arrogant and want girls to like them but just make them feel inferior coz they are big jerks and dont tell ANYONE about your crushes not even ur BFFAFEFEFEFs

because they will evntually tell people because they cant hold it in and it will cause a BIG drama and you dont want that in your lasy elementary school year... also just be nice to rude people or dont comment back,ignore them...if they make the situation even worse then just tell an adult and that will keep their mouths shut... also being nice and caring will give you more respect and you'ill have more friends then foes so ya...just be calm and cool and give mutual respect!

also work hard in school!

xoxo

Answer 3

I was kind of weird in middle school as well. I remember how bad people were, though. Not bad as in mean (although many were) but just plain stupid. I think that the best thing to do is just be yourself. Don't be fake, and if being extra nice isn't you, don't go there. Be good, yes, but don't push it or you'll be annoying for another reason. Everyone in 8th grade thinks they're so cool and a few years later, if you grow up, you'll realize how stupid everyone really was.

Don't obsess over crushes, they come and go. Love the people who stick around longer, they're special.

If you wanna be nice, and maybe even start something great, why not just do random acts of kindness? Those are really cool and we need more of those everywhere.

Stop hating the people you hate. Understand why they are the way they are and accept them this way. Talk to them and try to be friends with them. Hang with them and you will eventually know why they are the way they are. Hate is useless, it even cause wars and death. Get off that boat now! I know it's hard to do, but it's gotta be done

Don't say anything mean to anyone, not even your best friends. Find the good in everyone and only focus on that (another hard thing to do). If anyone hates you, being nice to them may soften them a little. Show them who you really are and don't be afraid to say what you feel.

Read these pages:

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Better-Perso...

http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?f...

There are plenty of links you should read here.

http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?f...

Kindness here.

Also, maybe you could do something good outside of school, like volunteer or something like that. There are things you can do for free at your age, you should look that up.  

Answer 4

To be 14 again...boy oh boy....With your hormones, good luck on your plans...Now middle school sucks in every way. Will this help, perhaps...but don't  get your hopes too high, it may take till maybe sophomore year to get a majority turn around...your age is touch and kids are mean, don't expect a turn around first month in school...However don't not be nice, stay consistent and sooner or later it will work. Its the age more then you.