Will this work to get my ex bk all advice and experience needed thanks?

Question

Here's my plan I've wrote her loads of love letters and poems before and they haven't worked I'm going to write a letter listing all my good points and admitting I'm not perfect in the same letter. I thought I was a good bf I would pay for meals out buy her loads of gifts, spoil her, I always there for her and was always supportive but I did have my moments when I got paranoid and drunk an d we had arguments but I want her bk here's the storyHey me and my ex girlfriend were together for a year and a half and we did everything together and weren't just bf and gf but we were also best friends. We broke up because of an arguemnt we had at our prom I got drunk and we had a huge fight. Anyway she always said if we ever broke up we must stay friends. We broke up (we've broken up before over stupid things) and she said maybe if 'we 'stay friends we could get bk together' well she said she was over me but got angry and envious when she saw a pic of me on facebook talking to another girl and said we'd never get bk together now and she's with somebody else. But after a few days I rang her up and asked her if she wanted to go to lunch and she agreed and later that day she txted me asking me to go shopping and we went shopping and it was fun and she sent me a txt after saying we should thay more often and arranged to go to the pics but the next day she was saying she's too busy and I that I'm being great but she said she can't forget what happened at the prom and a few days after txting and pleading she told me to 'leave her alone' but if she's over me surely she'd want to hang with me we did bounce of each other do you think she's not over me and that the reason she dosen't want to be friends incase she admits she still has feelings for me or is this just wishful thinking. I mean we were together for a year and a half and extremely close. We've broken up before and the last time she being stubbord and said we wont get bk together but she eventually caved in and we got bk together however this time it as happened she almost took me bk but then said no.

Answer 1

it will take awhile to earn back her trust so just go with the flow hang out when she wants to but don't talk about the past or feelings for her be her friend first and if you are meant to be together it will over time get back to the relationship you want back now.it just takes time if you show her you only want her friendship no ties her feelings of intimacy will come back!remember don't talk about love at this point until she does!

Answer 2

Nothing like riding a roller coaster . Maybe you should talk to her and ask her. Do you LISTEN to what she says? Taco Bell isn't a good PROM date so maybe you should go to class and meet in A 11. Better yet ,Breakfast at waffle house might fill your sweet tooth . That is if she likes GRAPE jelly!

Answer 3

Have you ever heard the expression : If you love something let it go... ?

Give her some space.  The more you smother her the less attractive you are. Pretend it doesn't  bother you. I know it is easier said than done but try it. The more you act like it is not a bother the easier it will get.

Answer 4

It sounds like she's over it. When a relationship requires this much back and forth and wishful thinking, it's time to move on. You have a history with her but it's not all that positive. Why would you want to be with someone who's with you because they "caved"? Either she's with you because she wants to be with you or she's feeling forced. Think about it.

Answer 5

Let's see, you're immature enough to get drunk at the prom with your girl.   Your solution is to write her a letter?  You need to get straight with yourself before you try a relationship.   Most girls would drop you like a bad habit and never think twice.