Will u help with my mom?

Question

i need a bra but my mom does not think so help how should i tell her to getme one plus every one else thinks i need one

Answer 1

When you are out with your friends, go get one yourself. You shouldn't need your moms permission to wear a bra, if you need the support, you NEED the support! Good luck!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Try to were a see through shirt and then she will realize you need one. P.S if she doesn't stop you on the way on the door wear a sweater!!!

Answer 4

explain to her.and i just kept bugging my mom. say like its embarasing and stuff.just explain to her,

Answer 5

Guilt her. tell her you are growning up and that it is abusive to dissalow you to get something you need like a bra.  

Answer 6

tell her you need the support :-) that your growing up & need one !

Answer 7

Give her a list of activities that are uncomfortable without it (sports that require bouncing or blocking a soccer ball) If all else fails you can get beginer bras at Old Navy for $5

Answer 8

Find someone who works at a store that sells bras (embarrassing maybe but you have to do something and not everything will be super fun to do anyway. We all have to deal). Ask when they work and find a way to get your mother to go with you to that store during the person's work hours. Have the girl and others working with her mention to your mom that she may want to get you a bra because it's time to do so or whatever the excuse they can come up with.

You can always tell her you wanna get one to get used to the way it feels or something like that. I don't understand why it's such a big deal for her. I know a few boobless kids who have bras and they definitely don't need to use bras lol If those don't work, get allowance money and use that to get yourself a bra.

Answer 9

Tell your mom kids are making fun of you cause you need a bra.  

Answer 10

How about going to somewhere like marks and spencers where they have a free measuring service?

then she can be told by a professional whether you need a bra or not.

Answer 11

What kind of mom won't get her daughter a bra?

Do you have an older sister?

Answer 12

Tell you mum you need to get measured as everyone is skitting you and it is uncomfortable without one.  If you are less than a A cup don't bother, your mum is right.  

Answer 13

tell your mother that you dont feel right with out having one, and everyone else has them, and you want one too, plus tell her you dont need your b***s to sag.

Answer 14

can i just say, by looking at ur name...you DNT need one

Answer 15

hahahahaha just tell heer "mom, everyone needs to let there little girl go sometime and how are you gonna do that if you cant even buy her a bra?"

Answer 16

Walk around with your shirt off.

Answer 17

moms always know best, maybe you dont need one?

however i understand you dont want to be the odd one out, tell her exactly how you feel

Answer 18

tell her what you think and go little first, honestly if it is time, its time. Go to JCPenny or Target.

Answer 19

As her if you can start off with a training bra, she may be more willing to get you it.  Are girls in your grade wearing bras?  Maybe if you have a friend, who wears a bra, her mom and yours could talk.  After all it may not be the best thing to start wearing one now, you'll have to wear one every single day and it may be uncomfortable.

Answer 20

Tell her boys were making fun of you for not wearing one and saying how they could see your nipples through your shirt. That should be enough to get your mom to buy you one.

I really don't understand why parents deny their kids things like wearing a bra or shaving their legs. It is a part of life and it doesn't hurt in any way.

Answer 21

Tell her you are uncomfortable and you need a training bra.

Tell her people can see your nipples through your shirt when it's cold and it makes you embarrassed!  

Answer 22

Wear one of your t shirts and show how you're b*****s need protection/coverage.

Answer 23

i dont know ask for a training bra

Answer 24

Just Talk To Her And Make Her Understand,

Oh & By The Way.

Kevin Is MY Boyfriend,

Lmao.

:D

&&,

I Said That Jokingly Though, I Dont Wanna Sound Mean.

Answer 25

If you feel you need one it is her responsibility as your mother to take you and get you fitted right the first time.

If she refuses do you have a close friend whose mother you trust? Maybe you could talk to her who then could talk to your mum.

If all else fails wear a swim/bikini top 'til she does buy you a bra. Not as supportive but better than nothing.

If she STILL refuses talk to a school councilor who will act on your behalf as your mother is neglecting your needs.

Or sell something you own (if you dont get an allowance) and use the money to buy yourself one. Get fitted first so you know your size then go elsewhere and buy one cheaper. The fitting stores can be very pricey.

Sounds like she isn't ready to 'let her little girl go' and accept you're growing up. It's an adjustment for parents too ya know ;) Some are just uncomfortable with the transition.

A few options for you, best of luck :)

Answer 26

Tell her you need one or just walk around with a really tight shirt  

Answer 27

Ask your mom for a training bra maturely. If you walk around without one, it's really gross. If she still says no, then don't bug her about it.

Here are your possibilites:

1. Walk around with a light-colored, tight shirt, so she can see the proof.

2. Ask one of your developed friends for an old bra that can fit you.

3. Ask your dad, older brother or sister, grandma, aunt, uncle, whoever. It's your own personal business.