Will we ever be more than friends?

Question

I've known this guy since freshmen year, but we never really talked then. Sophomore year we got a little closer. During the summer we started talking more. Now that it's junior year, we have classes together so we talk a lot too. In the summer he went on a far away trip for two weeks with band and spent most of his time with his old crush. She graduated already. They had an unofficial relationship together earlier our sophomore year, but he said he was over her. After the trip, he came back and basically regained his feelings for her. I sorta hinted I liked him this summer, but now we're both acting like it never happened. I'm not even sure if he got the hint, but I'm guessing he did. I have three classes with him every day and sit pretty close to each other. We even walk to class together sometimes. Do you think if we spend enough time together we will end up more than friends? Or will he always see me as just a good friend?

I don't mind the truth, but please don't phrase it with ridicule and condescending comments.

Answer 1

only you know the anser to that question

Answer 2

just give him time spend time with him let him know how you feel about him...and maybe with time you guys will be more than friend.. keep strong..

Answer 3

I've been in a similar situation and all I'm saying is that we are still friends and he likes someone else.  I think it depends on how you start the relationship. Friendly or Flirty. I started it friendly and look where it's gotten me.

Answer 4

only you know

Answer 5

Tell him how you feel about him. Don't wait. If you want him take that step a grab what you want. You will soon realize that this is the way the world works. Never depend on anyone else to make your decisions.

Answer 6

maybe if you wrote a shorter version? just kidding. ill read.

well to me it sounds like just friends. what i think is you need to do something to get his mind off of her. does she live far away? because if you spend more time with him then he will forget about her because she is so far! gahh! ship her to a different country!

Answer 7

honestly i think you talk to him about it.

he may feel the same way towards you but not just expressing it.

Answer 8

i say don't try to be more then "just friends" cuz if u guys eventually date then u break up it will ruin ur friendship 4ever....believe me im in a situation like that currently and just got out of one....