Will women ever learn that the only thing that nagging ultimately accomplishes is resentment toward them?

Question

Will women ever learn that the only thing that nagging ultimately accomplishes is resentment toward them?

Answer 1

In spite of the sexist stereotyping, men nag just as much as women, whether you want to admit it or not.

Answer 2

Repetitive nagging is mental abuse, verbal water torture!

Imagine 20yrs of living with a nag.

Answer 3

I don't nag, I discuss. :) I hated being nagged by the ex, and I make a point not to do it in my current relationship.

Answer 4

I am a woman and I completely agree. Nagging just pushes a person further away.

Answer 5

when men learn that resentment isn't the solution either...lol

some people got time to waste.....very unnecessary

Answer 6

You need to hang out with different women.  Lots don't nag

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I am a woman. I dont nag . Yes I am aware that nagging pushes away freinds and loved ones from us. ONe thing I notice as woman grows older they become nag*ers. Today i started praying that hopefully I wish I wont become a nag*er as i become older.

Answer 9

nope. It's kind of an instinct for many of them. Some women are more prone to nagging than others. Get a laid back girl. I had a nagging b***h for 4 years but my girl for the last year doesn't nag.

Answer 10

When will men ever learn that the only thing forcing a woman to nag ultimately accomplishes is resentment toward them? Do you think we like having to nag? Jeez.  

Answer 11

You mean learn like trained. Interesting....I fine myself with a resentment.

Answer 12

Sorry, I wan't listening. What did you say?

Cheers :-)

Answer 13

Well it's not fair to say all women nag. There are quite a few that do...and some men too. Sometimes the nagging is a symptom of a bigger issue though. Those people that nag for the h**l of it though won't learn that lesson easily. They will only learn through experience. The experience of losing friends and romantic interests. Then one day they will realize that it was they that ruined a relationship(s).

Answer 14

nope nope

Answer 15

Some will ... some won't ... and yes I understand the feeling ... the link below represents a man whom focuses his attention on black women ... he's always ranting , generalizing , nagging and quite frankly it gets on my nerves ( you can see his videos if you want to and start going from page 24 to 23 , 22 , 21 , 20 , etc )

http://www.youtube.com/profile_videos?p=...

Some women should stop nagging ... it's not ladylike

Answer 16

No.  I've told my mother that for years.  She'll never learn, and neither will my ex-boyfriend.

Answer 17

I hate nagging also. It doesn't solve anything and is a waist of high blood pressure. If I ask my bf to do something for me and he doesn't, I don't complain. But he then knows not to ask me for something. For instance I told him not to leave his dirty clothes on the floor. And he did anyway. Did I nag? No, I just picked them up and threw them in the trash. He learned quick not to put dirty clothes on the floor after that. :)

Answer 18

Will men ever realise that if they acted like men and not boys, woman wouldn't have to nag them.

Not a ****** btw.  Probably too laid back.  The naggers seem to have gotton a better deal then me.  I think they are onto something.

Answer 19

I betcha I can tell you that I don't nag; never have nagged and because I'm a woman you won't believe me.  Here goes I don't nag, never have and never will; it brings about closed veins, headaches and heart palpitations and whatever.

Things get done when they get done. Occasionally I'll remind as in "oh don't forget...." leave it at that.  What I have noticed is the atmosphere is more relaxed.

Answer 20

I wish my ex-wife would learn that ... my 17 year old son can't wait for our visits ... he knows dad won't take any c**p ... but he also knows i won't nag about anything ... and he is very resentful toward his mother.

Answer 21

This sounds like nagging..

Answer 22

Nearly no one learns that until it's sorta late |:

Answer 23

And habitually ignoring your partner, not acknowledging your partner,  will lead to their getting tired of talking to a brick wall and filing for divorce in the end.  You forgot about that part.  You were saying?

Its a sexist stereotype you are mindlessly parroting.  Notice I used the gender-neutral terms "they" and "your partner".

Answer 24

Nope.............they don't..

Answer 25

You can't satisfy a woman who can't be satisfied, so naturally a man will stop trying and actually do things just to spite her.  It goes against the natural tendency of men to have a woman TELL him what to do, let alone if he is nagged and perpetually criticized.  

Answer 26

I know this.  It's why I don't nag.  Maybe you should let my ex in on that little secret.