Will you be sleeping apart from your fiance the night before your wedding? Why or why not?

Question

Will you be sleeping apart from your fiance the night before your wedding? Why or why not?

Answer 1

We did, but only because his parents made a huge deal of it! Personally I would have gotten much more sleep and be well rested if he had slept at home! I was surprising though not seeing him until we took pictures! It was little stressful because I didn't know how he looked and if things were ok.

I think it depends on the couple. Best wishes and goo dluck to you on your special day!

Answer 2

My husband and I slept apart the night before our wedding.  We didn't live together before we got married so it wasn't weird.  Also, he had moved from MN to TX about a month before our wedding (I moved to TX with him AFTER the wedding) and so when he came back to MN just before the wedding, he was staying at his parents' and they are VERY traditional and would not have wanted us to stay together.  That was fine with me, though.

Answer 3

I slept my last night at my parents house and he stayed at our new place with his friends. We didn't see each other until the wedding and it was an amazing moment!

Answer 4

probably...it's a cultural moral thing for me, but even if it wasn't It would just seem right

Answer 5

I'm already married...got married 3 years ago in March, but we slept in the same bed together the night before the wedding.  we lived together and it was our home so we both slept there.  my mom tried to get me to sleep at her house but I didnt see a point to it.  if already living together, sleeping the night apart isnt going to change anything or make it more exicting.

Answer 6

Unless the kids make him sleep in the livingroom, no we will stay together. We live together already; he's a trucker and gone a week at a time.  Don't think we need more separation.

Answer 7

I will be sleeping apart. My bridesmaids are staying with me as well! and my mom...and actually my aunt...haha. It's gonna be a girl party :) Mainly because of tradition and it makes it more exciting. Plus, he can't see how nervous I will be! (My wedding is Aug 3)

Answer 8

yes, it will make the wedding night all the better. I also want to spend the night hanging out with my mom, future mother-in-laws and bridesmaids.

Answer 9

Yes. We have lived together for 2 years. I will be staying at my parents house and he will be staying at home and his brothers are gonna stay with him.

Answer 10

Of course, because we weren't shacking up.

Answer 11

Yes he's staying at his mothers I'm staying at a hotel (we're getting married in his hometown 3 hours from our home).

We're doing this to make sure we don't see each other the day of the wedding until the actual ceremony.

Answer 12

Yes I will - we've never lived together and have both saved ourselves for marriage. :)

Answer 13

we were both living with the parents, but the night before wedding both of the parents house was so full of guests who came from other cities for the wedding, that we could not find any silent space to sleep. so we escaped and stayed the night at our own house and in our new bed. But we were so tired and our mind were so busy that we could be considered sleeping apart!

Answer 14

We didn't because we didn't see a need to.  Our hotel was right next to the ceremony location and he would have had to travel 30-40 minutes to stay with his parents.  It just made more sense for both of us to sleep at the hotel and then split in the morning.  

Oh, and we had a wonderful wedding night - trust me, staying apart the night before will not change how much you want to get at each other afterwards.  All the excitement of the day will make it special....

Answer 15

I will not be sleeping with him the night before.

I don't want him to see me until I start walking towards him in my dress in front of all of our friends and family.

Answer 16

I will by sleeping apart.. Im having my bridesmaids over that night...

Answer 17

Probably not. I can't sleep of he's not there! And my wedding day is not the day to have big insomnia-induced bags under my eyes. But our wedding isn't until 5 PM, so we'll go our own ways in the morning and spend the whole day apart. That's torture enough! lol We basically spend every waking moment together- we even work together- so any time apart feels like I'm missing an important appendage. lol I think 10 hours should be more than enough to put the spark of anticipation in us. lol

Answer 18

i'd make sure that we were sleeping apart for weeks before our wedding to enhance our wedding night.

Answer 19

i'll probably stay with my fiance... but the details on that level aren't worked out yet as our wedding is next year...

we have a house together and will probably just continue normal life. That's the way I am. Do what you would like to do. Like someone else said you will be excited no matter what and I'd rather share the excitement with him quite frankly lol.. although my MOH lives a couple of hours away from me so if she wants to come over the night before we'll see from there... but if you're into tradition and want to be apart, do that too.

Congrats!

Answer 20

His parents have the guestroom for all the time they're in town before the wedding, so we won't be sleeping together beforehand at all, there's not enough rooms in the house to put him up too.

Answer 21

Apart. He's staying at home, I'm staying in the comfy, jacuzzi included hotel. Why? Because it's bad luck not to. I am into tradition.