Will you give her a chance?

Question

I meet her over the internet. We talked a couple of times. It was ok, nothing superb, but good enough to want a date with her.

The thing is we talked one day over the phone. It was ok. She said she will call soon but she didn't. I send her some text messages to her cellphone. I receive response to the 1st one, but not the last two.I didn't send her more. This was 9 days ago.

Today she just call me and said she was sorry for not calling or answering, she even repeat it at the end of the conversation. She said she didn't have money on her cellphone and she had been busy at work.

The thing is she proposed me to have a date and now I wonder if I should give her a try and forgot about the fact I didn't get news from her the last 9 days. I understand her reasons, but I wonder if she's really gonna be careless all the time or it was just this one.

I may be more dependant than she is. I wonder if this can mean something and in the long run it can ruin a relationship if I go to the date sunday and I like her.

Answer 1

dont bother  you arent that into her and you have no patience, you will make her miserable.  

Answer 2

Give her a chance! You haven't ever had a really busy chaotic week? If she still proves to be iffy later, then you took a chance.  Good luck with her, and i hope she proves you wrong :)  

Answer 3

You should go on the date. If it doesnt work out, move on. Good luck! x

Answer 4

Dude she did it on purpose !

To see if you care about her, if you would "wait" 9 days !

I would go to the date. Who knows ? It could be the girl of your life!!

Good luck :)

Answer 5

well i advice you tu think it in a gud and a bad way ... if u do go on a date she probably take you more serious and start callin you offten or txt you too often but then on the other hand i dont think it would cost you any money to answer the fone ... she works so i dont think she will be that brok to even top her fone up wit £5..

but thinkin in a positve way she might show more respect when you guys really started dating as now you were just friends ryt ???  

Answer 6

She gave two valid reasons. Get over yourself!

Answer 7

well it sounds like she does like you and her excuse about the cell phone is probably true especially if she called back. texting can be expensive and so can the monthy bill.give it a shot and keep in mind she said she was sorry twice

Answer 8

sure