Will you marry a girl who was in love with a guy for 2 years ??

Question

I was in love with a guy for 2 years and that relationship ended before 5 months because he cheated me.

I met him on chat.

He is at Delhi and I am at Trivandrum.

His native place is Trivandrum.

I had met him 2 times while he came on leave.

But I hadn't gone outside with him.

Just met him in my office.

My parents also knew about that old relationship.

Later I came to know that he was married and I left him.

Now I don't love him anymore.

Now after this 5 months, my parents are looking for a groom.

My mind has also prepared to accept a person in my life.

But I'm a little bit afraid whether the groom will know about this old relationship.

So will you marry a girl who was in love with a guy for 2 years ??

And what will be ur reaction if u came to know about that old relationship after marriage ??

Will u ask her about that ??

Answer 1

Here in the states thats no big deal. I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 and my future husband was in one for 2 years but that's all in the past. That's exactly what it is that past. He may ask you about it but you need to be honest with him dont lie to him about it. If you dont have trust in a relationship you dont have nothing. I dont know anything about your culture or anything but here in the states long relationship are normal. Good Luck. If he asks dont lie be honest. Tell him the truth. I wouldnt want my boyfriend telling me a lie about his past.

Answer 2

I don't know about where you are from, but here in the states, plenty of people have past (LONG) relationships with other people before getting married (to someone else).

I had a 3 yr old relationship with my exboyfriend, and my husband had a 2 yr old relationship with his exgirlfriend.

When we were both out of those relationships, we got together, and got married.... No big deal....

My friend has a 7 yr relationship with her ex, now she's with someone else (not married yet, or anytime soon). My other best friend had a 5 yr past relationship with an ex that cheated on her, and now she's still looking for love....

That's just us Americans, though,....

I can't vouch for people in your country/religion/culture.