Will your ex narcissist bother you and his unborn child if you ignore him?

Answer 1

Actually, I have a two  year old and a four year old with my ex narcissist.   When I forcefully told him to get out of my life, he searched and found his own place.  He bribed the kids with toys and cats to get them to want to live with him.  Of course, they were excited to.  BTW, I am unemployed, in foreclosure and have two older children, but anyway, when it came down to it, I challenged him and said I didn't want them to go.  The kids freaked out and said they wanted to go with their dad.  After relenting, he said he'd be back to get them in a couple of hours.  That evening we called him and he said he'd come soon but he didn't.  It boggles the mind.. still, how expertly deceitful these guys are. Then weeks later, I got him on the phone (he never replied to any emails, messages.. shut his phone off.. ) he said he'd call.. contact me about seeing them.  But he's just going away.  So, don't be intimidated.  Most likely, he'll love the drama but hate the responsibility.  He's just bluffing.  My four year old girl is an emotional mess right now, and I can't believe there are people like this in the world.    Don't think just because you go through the legal steps, to give him his right to the child, will mean that you will lose the child.  He'll certainly become a ghost.  But if you let him, he will during the first couple of years try and take sole credit for the beauty of the child.. as if you had nothing at all to do with her creation.  Good luck!