Wishing for a star but need some advise please!?

Question

Myself and my partner have been trying to get pregnant for 14mths now we no luck .It is so frustrating as it just seems to happen for everyone else but us. Could anyone give us some tips. Iv tryed lying there for awhile after s*x with my bum raised a little bit and also we were using the clear blue ovulation sticks.. Just need a few tips for new things to try that worked for other people .Thanks for reading....

Answer 1

Well something i did before I got pregnant was to make sure i didnt have boiling hot showers and umm put my legs up on the wall while laying on my back - however i dont really know if this helps at all it took me about 2 mnths to get pregnant and its almost like when we stopped worying about it it just sort of happened. I think one of the main things is to not be stressed and try and relax. And also use positive thinking - iv'e started using 'the secret' of positive thinking mostly when im driving if im about to get frustrated with the lights - i just think to myself. Ahhh the lights are going to turn green very shortly, I am going to have a very easy, enjoyable ride and i will not be stressed . And it works hauntingly well. so give it a go just be very positive - even if ur next test comes back negative - just think to ur sef. Wow im so lucky that my husband keeps trying with me , i know that in a couple of tests i will be pregnant and when i look back at all the days we were trying i will think to myself i should have just relaxed and planned for my pregnancy : ) keep on going it WILL happen

Answer 2

How long is your luteal phase?http://www.ovulation-calendar.com/hlp-d0...

how regular are your periods?

what is the colour/consistency of his s***n?http://www.netdoctor.cvitaminnshealth/fa...

are you BOTH taking vitimin pills?

do you bothetcve a healthy Bmi?

have you both stopped drinking/consideration

this are all things you need to take into concideratioconsiderationn't worry it took my bafterr and his wife 18 months to concieve their first but then after their daughter was born their son was born just 10 months later!

It will happen when the time is right, just make sure you don't stress about it and the main thing is keep your self healthy! I know that other poeple seem to get pregnant straight away but how do you know they havent been trying or 2 years? even if they are young.

good luck and hope it happens soon!

Answer 3

I know hoe you are feeling my dh and I have been trying for a while now too and I keep being told that it will happen when you relax and stop thinking about it, but I think when you want it so bad all you can do is to think about it and in some part let it consume your being.

I have heard that acupuncture helps, tracking your cervical mucos and tracking temperature are other ways that you can help to tell when you are most fertile. Try www.fertilityfriend.com they have a lot of good information there.

I wish I had the definative answer but the truth is I dont, all you can do is keep trying, stay positive and healthy and when you do get that big fat positive it will be all the more worth it.

Good luck and baby dust

Answer 4

My friend was TTC for almost a year when she read in a health magazine that if the man takes zinc (available in health food shops) it increases the amount of sperm he creates, they tried this for a month & then fell pregnant. You can also take a multivitamin such as Pregnacare which are suitable from trying to concieve, pregnancy & breastfeeding- they will ensure your vitamin & mineral levels are just right for conception- basically, get yrself down to Holland & Barratt or Boots today, lol!!

Also simple things like limited alcohol, both quit smoking (if you or your partner smoke) a healthy diet etc. have lots & lots of s*x! - you prob know all these anyway.

I know it must be really difficult but try your very best not to stress about it- i've heard a LOT of people get pregnant as soon as they stop trying, basically because they are much more relaxed.

Good luck to you- baby dust your way xxxx