Witches..Is it considered messing with someones free will if....?

Question

If you cast a spell to increase desire? With someone you are already involved with? Not to make them love you or anything but to make you more desireable to them, make them see something in you that in turn makes them want to spend more time with you? And have it be more passionate for their intended time in your life? I was told while burning a love candle not to be specific, because you might regret getting who you thought you wanted. But if you have someone that you know is not permanant but you would like it to be more fulfilling for their intended purpose is it ok to be specific?

Thanks for your answers!!

Answer 1

The trick is to make yourself more desirable to your man. Too many women think that casting a spell over a man is the answer and fail to use any Glamor spells on themselves.

There is nothing more desirable than a woman who is doing whatever she needs to do to take care of herself and make herself available. Of course, it is also more than that.

It's a mindset. It's a confidence in yourself. It's telling yourself you are beautiful and desirable and s**y and smart and believing it.

It's being strong and independent and decisive while at the same time  being soft.

Cast your spell with all these things in mind and transform yourself.

Answer 2

Just realize that you will get a threefold payback of being undesirable. If you truly believe witchcraft to be real get ready for that. Realistically that could result in everything from being undesirable at work, getting fired, need I go on.

Answer 3

Not if they agree to let you...

Answer 4

You actually seem to be talking about two different spells.  Casting to change yourself so that they might find your more desirable might be ethical.  You'd have to be very careful to focus and limit your intent, or risk karmic rebound.  The other spell is to increase their desire for you, which is clearly unethical.  

Just for the record, I have cast spells that had the desired effect.  If you expect hollywood gimmicks, you'd be right, magick doesn't work that way, but it certainly does work.  Healing, fertility, clarity of mind, creativity, eloquence, reduction of pain and fear.  All these can be aided by a carefully crafted spell from a focused, competent witch.

Answer 5

I don't see why not. Go for it. If it backfires, take responsibility, and don't do it again. If it works, all the better.  

Answer 6

The spell is innocuous, and none of Wicca's so-called powers work.  Go ahead and cast a spell; it's as useful as a Ouija board.

Answer 7

Oh heck, if doing a spell is bad- then ALL us women are real bad- we go to such extremes to "cast a glamour" over the men, don't we?

The hairdresser, the cabinet full of hairstyling stuff, the drawers full of make up.  The Miraculous bras, the perfume!

And if the gal is super smart- there are hunter/prey "rules" to follow to really get the guy interested in her.

It's all to cast a glamour.  Women do it all the time.

Answer 8

Yes, it is.  If you are manipulating anyone's emotions in any way, you are messing with their free will.

Answer 9

ive challenged sooooo many witches to do something with their power or spells or whatever....still......after 25 years...nothing...no spell power...no nothing!its all as silly as crustyanity.

Answer 10

Woah - you know it's not permanent but you would like it to be more fulfilling for their "intended purpose"?  Hmmmmm, lemme guess what that intended purpose is.  ;)

Honey, if you want to spice up your "love life", you don't really need spells to do so.  There are *plenty* of other alternatives you could try.

However, if you really want to bring magic into the mix, well then in the way you describe toward a specific person, I would only do so with your partner's permission - because you are teetering on that line of not wanting to manipulate another's free will, but attempting to define what constitutes doing that and having to question it.  Better safe than sorry.

If your partner is game, then the two of you could have a lot of fun.

http://www.amazon.com/Wicca-Lovers-Ritua...

Answer 11

Of course not and you'll inhibit their free will even less if you chain them in your basement

Answer 12

You are indeed messing with their free will. But... spells don't work unless you, the *victim* of a spell, know about it and believe in it. Now how about that?

Answer 13

Yes it is. Let it work out on it's own and try talking to them. Then they won't be "spelled" into doing anything.

Btw--if they don't want to be with you then why bother with them in the first place?  

Answer 14

kissing up to witchcraft isn't safe. don't put a spell on anyone or it will come back to haunt you.

Answer 15

Getting plastic surgery would be more effective.