Wives-Do you get other husbands trying to do nice things for you?

Question

I have this guy who is somebody else's husband and he compliments that I'm so good at things, or he does nice things for me, I feel a little guilty because It makes me feel like I have to do something nice back. He seems a little protective of me too. I am married. Do you get this too?

Answer 1

it sounds like hes trying to hook up with you.  or just being really friendly. its hard to say he might just be a very nice person.  u should know yourself.

Answer 2

I have had that also. Some men's natures are just that way. Kind of like some folks are hugger and always bubbly while others are not. Feel lucky you know a girl who's hubby is that way. Take it for what it is, a nice person gesture because that is exactly what his personality is

Answer 3

Well, normally I would not worry about it, but you say that it is making you uncomfortable and that is where he is crossing the line.  If you feel you are being singled out and dont see him doing this with other women, then you need to tell him that while you appreciate his nice words and gestures, that it also makes you feel a little weird.  It very well may be his nature and he may have all good intentions, but if you are uncomfortable with it, you need to say something.  

Answer 4

Yes, I get this within my close community - families that I have been involved in activities with for years and years.

What you need to look out for is if he does NOT do this for other wives.  If he has singled you out, then he has an ulterior motive.

Answer 5

Nope, sounds like he wants a little more than just him doing nice things for u, he sounds like he wants u 2 be his mistress, or possibly his other wife!

Answer 6

No, I don't. I think he is trying to get with you.