Women, are you submissive to your man? And Men, would you prefer a women who is submissive?

Question

Women...would you cook, clean, do laundry, iron his shirts,hand wash his draws, types his reports for work, rub his back and feet, and give him s*x whenever HE wants it?

I was watching some retarded show just now and most men want a women to stay home as a house wife...

Well ya'll..I guess Ima be a lonely single person forever because I would be damned if I have to do that for a human being that has 2 legs and 2 arms like I do...I will be damned!...

Answer 1

cook - i dont really cook much, hes a better cook than me

clean - i do cleaning but i actually like it (my husband says i am Monica lol)

do laundry - we pay someone to do it

iron his shirts - he irons his stuff as he would hate it if i did it. he loves ironing and wants thinks to be just as he likes them.

hand wash his draws - the laundry person washes everything

types his reports for work - i do this for his degree as his typing speed is slower than mine.

rub his back and feet - we give each other massages

give him s*x whenever HE wants it - i always wan s*x so i dont see how this is a chore.

Answer 2

Once and awhile it might be "nice" but over a long period of time it would become annoying.

     I don't like telling others what to do and I don't like others telling me what to do.

     I prefer relationships that are more equal, but it also depends on the time of person you are with. It is ok to bend with the wind, but it is never ok for someone to force you to break for the wind.

      

Answer 3

You can't base a simple perspecive about men all because of a television show. Not all men are like that.  

Answer 4

I like submissive and obedient women.

Answer 5

Yeah right.  I do stay home right now, but I am currently looking for a part time job.  I do all the laundry, cooking, and cleaning because my husband works for 2 weeks offshore so I have to do it myself.  I have 2 kids to take care of.  When he is home for 2 weeks he helps me do those things, or tries to anyway.  We usually make big decisions together.  If we do have a disagreement he eventually sees that I am right and do things my way.  So I guess he would be the one that is submissive.

Answer 6

You know, to each his own, really.  Some people like that type of relationship, and some don't.  My hubby and I have a bit of a strange one, really...there are times when we go back and forth, one being submissive, and the other not, and there are times when we work together.  Let's see...he cooks, rubs my back and feet, and gives me s*x whenever I want it.  He brings me snacks and stuff when I am being lazy on the couch, and when I am sick, he babies me until I feel better.  He also makes more money, and has a more demanding job than I do.  On the other side of that coin, I clean, do laundry (no ironing, unless absolutely necessary, and it's usually my own), yes, I wash his drawers, and sometimes I do type his reports for school.  My job still makes money, and sometimes has longer hours, but it is easier.

Sometimes, even in front of other people, I will flat out tell him how it's going to be, and that is that.  His friends all thought I was a total tyrant until they saw him do the same with me.  Now they realize that we both play it as a little game sometimes, so they just laugh.

My best friend is pretty feminist, however, she spoils her man rotten because she loves him so much...other men she wouldn't dream of it.  So, it just depends on the people and the relationship, I guess.

Answer 7

Most women prefer assertive men. This naturally entails a certain degree of dominance. Treating your partner like a personal servant is another thing entirely.

A lot of women like to be dominated to some degree, dominated may be the wrong word, women in general prefer decisive pro-active men but few would appreciate this kind of treatment. I doubt any man who expects this kind of behavior from his wife/girlfriend has much respect for them. If your guy is treating you like this, dump the bum and find a man who actually cares about you.

Answer 8

Would you cook, clean, do laundry, etc. and give him s*x whenever HE wants it? Yes I would, and I've done even more for him than that. My doing those things for him has got nothing to do with being submissive. Being submissive means to tolerate; it's impossible to obey that which is tolerated. Toleration is a state of putting up with. A person cannot obey what they put up with.

Also, it's a bit difficult to control a person who can't be persuaded, and or imtimidated into doing what they are more than willing to do. You can't persuade, and, or imtimidate the more than willing. I'm more than willing.

The never refusing a husband  s*x is not only one of the most important acts of obedience; it's the ultimate act of unselfishness. s*x is the ultimate connection between a husband and a wife. It's an antedote to their tensioned filled day, not just hers, not just his; their tension filled day. In other words it's a great way to relax and unwind. During both of my marriages I worked outside the home. Yes, I would come home dead tired; however, I never refused any of them s*x.  For some reason after that simple act of unselfishness all of my tensions flew out the window.

Answer 9

I would do that only if he takes care of my needs as well though. Like pay all bills give me some whenever i want some, be a good father, husband, EVERYTHING!! I know what im worth and i would only give to some one who is worthy of me!! Dont get me wrong I am very independent but would not hesitate is someone wants to take care of me and love me and be there for me and all that good stuff! Only then will i do all that for my man because he would deserve it for being so wonderful!! Sucks that they dont exist!

Answer 10

If that's what the guy really wanted in a relationship I would hand him the Yellow Pages.  Why would he need me? Why would I need him?

Answer 11

when married, I was because I was expected to be; when in a few really 'tight' relationships, it was clear they didn't want this kind of attention because it made them feel like they were with their wives.

Answer 12

How two people conduct their marriage is their business, and I Do. Not. Care.  Nor do I give a schitt what "most men" want.

NO, we don't do that.  

Hang in there.  I promise you, you'll find a Real Man someday who loves you for the person you are, and doesn't insist on a caricature for a wife.

Hand wash his drawers?  Oh h**l no.

Answer 13

No, I'm not, and doing all of those things doesn't make you submissive.  Of course, being at someone's beck and call would be.  Actually, I wouldn't even call that submission.  I'd call it being a doormat.

Answer 14

No, I like dominant women that will argue with me :D.

Answer 15

i would happily do all that only if i'm happy. That means he has to do stuff for me too!

Answer 16

h**l no. Being submissive would go against everything for which I stand.

Answer 17

Meh, I don't want a doormat, but someone who cooks would be nice. Some of the rest seems creepy and unnecessary.

Answer 18

I want a woman to be somebody of her own.

Housechores are just chores, theyre not a life.  A woman is a person too, needs to develop what she has as a useful role in the world.

Ya ever see Stepmom?

Julia Roberts comes off as 'cool'.  She can be a great mom and friend, but she also very much has this great profession (photographer).

((And she's very much the star of her own show at it too))

This is what I always imagined I wanted to be with.

Someone who IS something, is herself, fulfilled.

Chores are just chores.  Split them, get a maid service, whatever. ya know?

Answer 19

I think I could manage to cook, clean, do laundry and ironing, and agree to his requests for s*x and so on without actually being submissive!

Now if he told me I *had* to those things because I was a woman it would be a different matter!  And if he assumed that he should make all the important decisions and I should just agree, he'd find out quite quickly that I'm not remotely submissive.  (I don't want to be dominant either; I like things equal.)

Mind you, my husband doesn't seem to be attracted to submissive women.  All his previous partners have been very independent career women, and he definitely likes his partners to have strong opinions about things.  I don't think he'd feel comfortable being dominant in a relationship.  He seems to like things equal too.

Answer 20

I do all those things, minus the hand washing draws! Some because I chose to stay home so the housework needs to get done since we can't afford a maid. While others like ironing, he usually needs to ask me to do, cause it's not my thing, or when he is attending school asks me to help, but I'll do it! And giving him s*x, I also choose to do on my own accord though he has stated he hates when I'm not in the mood but still has s*x with him and wishes I wouldn't just give in, but then he'd never get any and that would suck more! But I do it all because I love him and he takes such good care of me (not even money wise are we talking here) and the children. He is one of the few men I know that actually wanted kids so he could be a good father and play with them, not just to pass on his blood line and let me do all the work! He's an awesome man/ husband and he does so much for me, that those things I don't even like doing are worth doing to show my gratitude for all he does for us! But I will say, he knows how to do all of it as his mother raised him well, but appreciates he doesn't have to regularly!

Answer 21

I could never live with a submissive woman. On the contrary: I have always been attracted to assertive and confident women.

I do my share with the housework, mostly cleaning, often cooking and ironing.

When I´ll retire from work in the near future and my wife will still have to work for some time, we have decided already that I´ll completely take over the housechores. As her male housewife, will I be submissive? Neighbours and friends will perhaps tease me: I may appear to be my wife´s doormat.  If you call me submissive - your definition!  - Probably something will change: She will become more confident, taking her role as a kind of breadwinner, and - who knows: taking the lead in the partnership?

I am not scared of anything. It will be a loving togetherness, with playing and exploring roles. You are never too old for some interesting and exciting innovations.