Women, do you tend to keep yourself up a bit more when you meet a new guy?

Question

I'm in a hurried frenzy to get everything shaved, buffed & puffed now that I might be getting some action. Or do you just not care & let him forge through the forest of hair & calluses.

Answer 1

What kind of person are U? You only think of having some action, not for a true and deep relationship...

Answer 2

what? lol

Answer 3

Keep yourself up.  It shows you care about him and about yourself.  Really, it doesn't take that long.

Answer 4

When I meet a new guy I'm all shiny and clean kind of like a new car.

After I've been with him a while, I pretty much look like a beat up Pinto.

Answer 5

I am always clean shaved even without a guys attention especially down there. I like to feel natural without all the hair on my body.

Yet dressing frumpy is something I have done, but the guy still says I look hot.

Answer 6

may sound strange to you but: no.

i don't like to set the criteria too high. see, if a guy see's me at my best, likes me, say we meet again, and i want to make things a bit more interesting, there's nothing else left for me to do. and the best i can do he'll see as normal and boring.

but if i meet a guy wearing no make up, and no special clothing, he likes me and we meet again, anything i do he'll see as beautiful an amazing, especially since he'll know i did it for him.

for example, i meet a guy two months ago on a trip to london. it was the furthest away from home i've ever been. we traveled by bus for three days. no bed. no mirror. no changing clothes. no shower. no shaving. no water whatsoever, except for drinking.no sleep for three days. no make up to cover the bit dark circles round my eyes. (while on the road, they didn't let us get to our suitcases. i had all my cosmetics with me, just couldn't get to it. preeety f$$$$d up situation, if you ask me!)

i smelled even to myself! and we met, talked, laughed together in the bus, and i can tell he really liked me. we've stayed in touch. i can tell he's really into me, but he's very shy.

i don't want to push anything, cause i'll seem to desperate. just give him a chance and see what he does. he's a real great guy, so i'll give him time.

we go to the same school, so i see him every day. i rarely put on make up when i go to school, so he basically hasn't seen me all buffed & puffed yet. that leaves a lot of options for me when we go out. i still got something, no, A LOT to surprise him with!

i love the element of surprise. love always havin an ace up my sleeve. it gives you a lot more to work with. i like keepin the mistery for as long as i can.

but that's just me.

xoxo

Answer 7

how did you even meet someone if you're all hairy and callused!!