Women, how do I ask her this?

Question

Ive been in a committed relationship with a woman for a while now. Since moving in with her, I have been totally fascinated with the panties and pantyhose she wears. I'm a totally straight guy, but for some reason I'm dying to try them just to see what the sensation would feel like. I want to do it with her participation and approval, so from a woman's view, how should I approach this with her?

Answer 1

Show her this post. Tell her you are curious to know what it feels like. She may find it too weird, but she may not. If she does, then maybe you should let it drop. Believe me, from a  women's perspective, you aren't missing anything. Pantyhose are really uncomfortable.

Answer 2

dont tell her this

Answer 3

Don't, she will think you are at least a bit g*y.  Don't.  Don't.

Answer 4

Just say it. If you are living with her, you should be able to tell her anything at all.

Answer 5

Be careful  Try to find out how she feels about it in general without bringing your thoughts into the conversation yet. She might be repulsed by it, so you may have to choose between her and your impulses.  I know I wouldn't want my man to do that.

Also, I would go ahead and try it once in private.  That may be all you need to satisfy your curiosity.  That way, you would never ever have to mention it to her at all.

Answer 6

When she takes them off, you should put them on. Just keep a normal conversation going. When she takes them off, pick them up and tell her how soft they are. Then, just put them on. Tell her that they are so soft compared to your underwear, boxers, whatever. Ask her can you try them on. Put them on like it's no big deal. She will probably laugh at you. If you act afraid or sneaky, she may get the wrong impression.

Answer 7

Get yourself some silk PJ's. Visit a lingerie store and get some large underwear. You are no doubt too big to fit in her clothes anyway. You'd ruin them.

Answer 8

The only way you can approach that is to be open with her and tell her you got this fetish to wear a females panties and pantyhose..  after all a relationship should consist of honesty ... not sure how she will react though you have been living with her for a while and you know her.. at least you should know her attitude a little bit.. is she that open minded do you think.. I believe I am quite open minded but if a guy asked me if he could wear my panties and my pantyhose.. I guess I would break out giggling at first but then I would think... ''is this the kind of guy I want to live with a guy who wants to dress up as a woman''' but perhaps it's ok with her.. in any case if I had a partner I would prefer him to tell me this and not go and try on my underwear.....''If this is really very important to you. then you have to weigh in the balance.. she may be open minded and find this fun..  but she also may react like I would.. giggle at first and then  think '' I want a guy as a partner who dresses as a guy and I would question if this relationship has a future.. this is the risk you have to take.. if this is so important to you to wear her pantyhose and panties.. she might be fine with it or you may lose her then you have to decide what's more important for you .. to dress up as a female or to keep the relationship.. but be honest with yourself.. that is the most important.. you need to be honest with yourself if that is part of your identity then accept it.. then you just got to tell her because you have to respect yourself and you owe her respect and honesty.. xx

Answer 9

I really don't think this is gonna go well for you dude. Nothing wrong with kink but a lot of women are not into that. Bring it up casually like..i was talking to this workmate the other day(or whatever story you want to concoct) and he likes to wear his womans underwear sometimes. You know..just try then on........" ok then say all this in a nonjudgemental cheery kind of way then say nothing and you can gauge from her response her feelings on the matter. If shes not keen you can try on her stuff when she is not there. Be warned though. If you start doing this you might start to like it alot. It might affect your life a lot. Do you really want that?

Answer 10

maybe you should get comfortable talking with her about s*x, first.  maybe ask her about her fantasies... who knows.  she might find it a turn on.  personally, I don't think it would be weird for my boyfriend to want to wear my underwear... but I know some girls who would be very uneasy about it

Answer 11

I think one evening while yall are being playful, you should just take her undies, the ones you just took off her and put them on and prance around playfully and see what happens.  Pantyhose later.  Good Luck.

Answer 12

Buy some silky men's underwear and knock it off...you're acting like a fruit.

I'd kick you to the curb if you wanted to wear my underwear.

Answer 13

From a woman's point of view, that's kind of kinky! I'm not sure if I would want my fiance to ask me this.

Answer 14

Why do you need her to participate in this.?  Order from Victoria's Secret and try them on by yourself, if you're so curious.

Or do it when she's at work or out having s*x with one of your straight friends.

Good luck!