Women, how do you prefer your man to indicate he would like you to go down?

Question

I would like to request this from my wife in the most polite way possible, so what's the preferred verbiage?

Answer 1

Just send her a memo.

Answer 2

If my husband asked me, let alone verbally said ANYTHING indicating he wanted me to go down on him, it would totally turn me off.  Usually after he goes down on me is a good indication that he wants it too.  But then again, my husband also understands this is one this he'll never force or expect me to do.  But usually after he goes down on me, that totally turns me on to reciprocate.  

Answer 3

I am a man, but usually I get into the 69 position and we please each other.

Answer 4

My ex used to play a game with it.  He would point to his mouth and say "kiss here".  Then point to his neck, then chest, then stomach.  he would basically make a trail all the way down to his you know what and well, I would be down there.  I don't remember how it got started but I do remember that it was something that I did like.  

My spouse now doesn't ever ask for it.  It just usually happens during foreplay at one point or another.  Or I have also just pulled down his pants in the kitchen or living room and started having fun.  I love pleasing him without him having to worry about me and my needs, so it is a frequent occurrence.  

Answer 5

Down the stairs?  Down the driveway?  Downtown?  You're not very specific, mate.

Answer 6

He doesn't have to ask or hint around.  I know that he likes it so I am happy to oblige because he always returns the favor.

Answer 7

manually directed

Answer 8

tell her "ooh baby i want you to taste me soooo bad!" it's sounds real freaky and it turns me on!

Answer 9

Start out on her for a while maybe she will try and return the favor.

Answer 10

Ah that's easy the nicest and best way to do it (my man does this and it makes it sound less dirty) he gets all shy and cute and then he asks me to "kiss it".  Kiss it sounds so much better than suck it or anything like that.  I do it more when he says this and he has learned this is the only way I will do it.  But I enjoy it so I don't mind.  He sounds too innocent when he says Kiss it how can I resist?

Answer 11

just do 69 we do it all the time. it usually starts by me texting him saying i really want to suck your co*k and it goes from there when he gets in

Edit: this question is a bit of a dud cause most normal couples just do it or come straight out with it. If you cant be dirty and open with your husband or wife who can you be. You should have got all this nervousness out the way when you first start dating.

Answer 12

Do it dirty baby...

rub the back of her head and slightly tug her hair as to pull her down and tell her "suck me" .

Its hot, its dirty, and exciting.  

Answer 13

well my man never has to ask......its just known that he's going to get some action down there.....Last night I didn't though since I was a bit tired and he thought something was seriously wrong lol

Answer 14

He doesn't have to indicate....I do it all the time...

I guess if I wanted him to let me know, we'd set up a code word or have a fun way of him letting me know....