Women, why do you leave everything and everyone behind?

Question

Why do women enter a relationship, create a sacred bond, meet new friends, gain new family members, and build a family with someone only to turn around and destroy that bond, abandon those family members, and ruin people's lives? WHY?

I know how easily you can do it, I just want to know why, especially when the husband didn't do anything to deserve it. You simply light the divorce fuse and walk away, never turning around to watch the TNT go off and the devastation you bring about with your half-witted excuses and unthoughtout reasons.

I hope someone can REALLY answer this!

Answer 1

I don't know if anyone has the answers for this one.  I've seen a few woman do that to men over the course of my lifetime, and I've wondered the same thing.  I guess they feel they have their reasons and justifications... I have a theory myself, and it's usually because of another man.

Answer 2

Women's lib.  Sadly, this has generally been interpreted as "Me First" by the weaker s*x.

Answer 3

I don't think it has anything to do with being female.  It's like making a generalization about men for  a woman that's abused.  Thinking all men are abusive.  I've seen men and women abandon families. It has to do with the individual, i.e. their insecurities, their issues, and the fact that they may be simply a crappy person.  If you're the one going through this, I'm sorry.  

Answer 4

Only human. we tend to make  many mistakes, though at the time they don't seem like it. and even though things seem to destory every good memory in their path, it would turn out for the better. maybe just the better for one person, which is not fair, but can hardly be avoided.

people change and even though we don't want to admit to it/ or believe it, everyone does and it is really hard to keep a constant if not growing appreciation towards someone and truly accept them fully.

would you have rather her staying even though it made her unhappy and in return you unhappy?

sometimes you just have to get the ball rolling, though with serious forethought, and hope that you made the right choice, because rarely there is going back. and you have to live with the people you hurt.

though i do not belive it is just women.

Answer 5

Reverse the sexes and you are asking the same question that millions of women do. Its the same feeling no matter which s*x is the one cheated on, abandoned, or simply left behind for something better, or just something different.

Why do they do it? Selfishness, immaturity, lack of personal insight, seeing only what they want as important, flat out greed, lack of moral fiber, the list is as varied as those that do it. Unfortunately one thing they all have in common, they don't have the foresight to see that its their actions that are the reason they cause pain the other party.  

Answer 6

Generally Women when they enter into a relationship, they do it with the thought that they have found the ideal, perfect gentleman of their life, one who will hold them preciously, one who will take care of them, one who will satisfy them etc etc, I can go on and on, but some time later they find that the man they had married or living with is not perfect but has problems, insecurities, immature etc etc.

Also they allow doubt and suspicion cloud their mind.

Once this enters into their mind, even if god attempts to change or correct them, They will never change their attitude.

That is so written in their head.

All I have written here is from my personal experience.  I am not finding fault with anybody. This is my general observation.

good luck and god bless

Answer 7

cuz he was s******g something else. 15 years didnt mean c**p to him I guess.